Faith

James 2:14 What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone?
15 Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing,
16 and you say, “Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well”—but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?

17 So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless.

18 Now someone may argue, “Some people have faith; others have good deeds.” But I say, “How can you show me your faith if you don’t have good deeds? I will show you my faith by my good deeds.”

This passage struck me today. The reason why is because we are raised to think one or the other. Salvation alone gets you to heaven OR Good Works gets you to heaven.

Ofcoarse, Salvation in Jesus Christ is how you have a relationship with Him, but if my faith is dead without works, what does that mean? How can some people say that they are Christians if they do not perform good deeds?

Here is the analogy that came to me.

Salvation is like a marriage.
1st step is:
1. You get married. Now once you are married. That's it. You can't say, "I am kinda married." Or "I think I am married." Once you are married, you are in! You are either married or not.
That is how salvation is. Once you accept Christ, are you in! You cannot say, "I kinda am saved". Or "I think I am saved." You are either saved, or not. There is no middle.

2. You give and take. Suppose you get married, but you never listen to the person. You never talk to the person. You never do anything for the person. And you are unfaithful to that person....are you REALLY married? Yes, you have the certificate and the ring, but let's face it, your marriage is dead. I wouldn't want to be in THAT kind of marriage.

This is like your relationship with God. Yes, you are saved once you ask Him into Your heart. But, if you never talk to Him(pray), and you never listen to Him (read your Bible), and never do anything for Him(good deeds), and are unfaithful,(putting anything before HIM), YOU RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS DEAD!

The wedding day is just the beginning of marriage. And Salvation is just the beginning of your walk with Christ. Your relationships are either inclining or declining.

I am not saying that you need to be Mother Teresa or live a perfect life. That is impossible. What I am saying is you need to be fruitful. Faith without works in dead. Your faith is dead unless you are DOING something for Christ. Just like your marriage is dead unless you are DOING something in the marriage.

So, instead of making excuses of why your relationship with God is not where you want it to be, DO SOMETHING. Don't blame it on the Pastor's "shallow teaching". Or your "busy schedule." Take the blame. Man up. You are responsible for YOUR relationships. No one else. YOU. So, like Nike says it: Just do it.

Start living OUT your faith. Stop talking and start doing. IN your relationship with God and others.

Quick Tips on how to NOT worry!

Worrying can have harmful effects on our lives. There really is no solution when you worry, it only creates more problems for yourself in the long run. Consider these four techniques on analyzing the situation at hand in order to minimize worry.

* Get all the facts
* Weigh all the facts - then come to a decision
* Once a decision is reached, act!
* Analyze the problem:

* What is the problem?
* What are the causes of the problem?
* What are the possible solutions?
* What is the best solution?

From: DALE CARNEGIE SUCCESS TIP OF THE WEEK.

Perfect Life

How many of you have life perfect?
How many of you have challenges in your life?
How many of you wish something could be changed in your life?
How many of you wish a miracle would happen in your life?

How many of you said yes to 1 or ALL of these?

You are not alone. Everyone has problems. That's life.Get used to it.
I am NOT trying to come across and non-merciful.

What I AM trying to do it help you and I realize that you are not alone. It may not look the same, but we all struggle.

Here is what the Bible says:
1. Rejoice!
2. Think!
3. Confess!

1. Rejoice! Phil 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!
Yes, life will throw you unexpected things BUT you have to focus on the good stuff.
Ask yourself these questions:
1. What are you thankful for?
2. What are you proud of?
3. What are you excited about?
4. Who do you love?
5. Who loves you?

2. Think!
Phil 4:8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable-if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-THINK about such things.

If you want to rejoice, you have to think about such things! Don't think about how bad your life is. Or was. Or is going to be....unless you want to have a miserable life. Stop. Think about what you are thinking about. Does it pass the Phil 4:8 test?
Ask yourself:
1. Is what I am thinking True?
2. Is what I am thinking Right?
3. Is what I am thinking Pure?
Go down the Philippians list..Anytime you start to think "Woe is me", focus on what is true, noble, right and pure! AND Rejoice!

3. Confess!
Confess to God and to others.
When you mess up, you need to ask for forgiveness.
1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.

James 5:16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.

Confessing brings healing! Look at the verse. Confess your sins...so that you may be healed.

I know there is a lot of trials in your life. Trust me. I don't have this "Rejoice always" down. I am learning too. This is just as much for me, as it is for you. This is a process of changing the way you think. It takes time.

What I DO know is that you cannot focus on the bad in your life.If you do, your life will be bad. You will be miserable. But, if you choose to focus on the positive, you will realize how blessed you really are. You will rejoice! You will think about the right things. You will confess when you need to-so that you can be healed!

Love you all. I would love to hear your thoughts :)
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What's wrong with me?

What's wrong with me?

I am sure many of you have asked yourself that question before. Maybe it sounds something like this...

-I can seem to give up this sin. What's wrong with me?
-I didn't get that promotion that I worked so hard for. What's wrong with me?
-I haven't had a date in forever. What's wrong with me?
-My kids don't understand and I don't understand them. What's wrong with me?
-I lost my job. What's wrong with me?
-I feel sad all the time. What's wrong with me?
-My marriage is not as it should be. What's wrong with me?
-My struggles seem to overpower me. I can't get out. What's wrong with me?
- I am still waiting for the right job, right person, right house, right ________.=

WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME??

Well, I have good news and bad news.

Bad News: There is A LOT wrong with you! You don't have it all together. You do struggle. You are a mess. You can't do everything right.

Good News: EVERYBODY has a lot wrong with them!

Instead of focusing on what is wrong with you, you need to focus on what God has done FOR YOU!

1. You cannot EARN good standing with God. Jesus already paid the price. So, anytime you are beating yourself up for what is wrong with you, STOP! It is not biblical. Conviction is biblical. Guilt is not. No one is perfect.

Romans 8:1 So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus.

2. You are NOT condemned. You are redeemed!

Isaiah 52:3 For this is what the Lord says: "You were sold for nothing, and without money you will be redeemed. ....this is absolutely beautiful and so refreshing!! Read it again!

Next time, you start to ask yourself, "What's wrong with me?", STOP! You are made BY God and FOR GOD!! He doesn't make junk. He knows your downfalls AND STILL LOVES YOU!

No one else will love you unconditionally like God will. He will always love You, no matter what you do or don't do. Child, You are Redeemed!

21 tips for success...good stuff!

Sorry the font is so small, but this is good stuff!

Why are you here?

Why are you here?

I got some of this from another blog. It is supposed to be for single people waiting for the right person, but I think this relates to anyone that worries. Anyone that feels like their life is out of control. Anyone that wonders why they are here on earth.

Today I was running with a friend and we were talking about how so many times, we plan for the future.But we forget about today. We forget that God gave us today for a reason. If we are not dead, there is a reason for today. God gives us each day to fulfill His purpose.

Think about it: Would God give you one more day if He did not have a specific plan for You that day?

And He only guarantees us one day at a time. Remember the prayer? Give us this day our DAILY BREAD? Jesus didn't ask for 2 weeks supply of bread. He didn't ask for a year's worth of bread.. He asked for a day. That's it. Why? Because that is all we are guaranteed at a time. That is all we need at a time.

Think about it:If we asked for a month's worth of bread, what would happen to it?
It would go to waste.
It would be heavy to carry.
It would be burdensome.
It would be frozen for goodness sakes!

So, why do we ask to know the future more than a day at a time? Yes, I think it is good to plan for the future.

But, it is NEVER good to worry about the future. Why?
It is wasted time and thoughts.
It is heavy to carry around.
It is burdensome.
It is frozen in future, until God gives you another day.


The Holy Spirit has convicted me and grown me in how I steward my time.

Each time I start to struggle,worry,think about my waiting, I have to ask myself the following questions:
Do I trust that he has ordained my days? (Psalm 139: 5, 6, 16)
Do I trust that he supplies all I need? (Matthew 6:32)
Do I trust that never will he leave me or forsake me? (Joshua 1:5)
Do I trust that who I am in Christ defines me? (Colossians 2:10)
Do I trust that God always has a plan in everything? (Jeremiah 29:11)

If I am trying to just hang on until I get married, or until I get that job, or until I have kids, or until I get over this certain struggle, and don’t accept this season, then I am saying that these days that God has ordained are not enough, that he made a mistake and is a liar.

The simple truth is that he takes care of my every need and provides all that I need—if I don’t have it, I don’t need it. And I can rest in this because I know he is a loving God.

God does not look at me as a mistake but through the work Jesus did on the cross. Who I am in Jesus is what defines me, and that is where I am to look for my identity. I know I need to be in loving community. I need to spend time in God’s word to know his promises and his truth: that God is perfect, loving, wise, and sovereign, and I am his daughter. The daughter of a King.

“I know nothing more effective for quieting a Christian soul and getting contentment than this: setting your heart to work in the duties of the immediate circumstances that you are in now, and taking hold of your thoughts about other conditions as mere temptations.” • Jeremiah Burroughs

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” • Romans 15:13

So why are you here? To serve and worship God with every day! Don't focus on the past.Don't focus on the negative. Don't focus on the worries. Focus on God. Focus on today. What opportunity has God given you TODAY? How can God use you TODAY? Remember if He didn't have a plan for you today, you would be dead! So, don't waste today worrying about tomorrow! Live for today.


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Dare to Hope

"Yet I still dare to hope when I remember this."
Lamentations 3:21 (NLT)

Ask yourself:
1.Have you ever cried until the tears would no longer come and your heart was broken in tiny pieces?
2.Have you ever uttered, "Everything I hope for from the Lord is lost?" Then you, me and Jeremiah make three.

I am sure all of us have stories of regret. Stories of disappointment. Stories of hurt. Whether it is relationships, jobs, family, or the lack of something, everyone has a story.

(From Christianitytoday.com)Jeremiah, also known as the weeping prophet, found himself in a hopeless situation as he watched the Temple of the Lord being burned to the ground by the Babylonians. His heart broke. The elements of the Temple such as the water basin and lamp snuffers were stolen, taken to Babylon to be used to worship false gods.

Jeremiah cried until no more tears would come (Lamentations 2:11, NLT). His heart was broken for Jerusalem and for God's people, his people. In anguish he lamented the words, "Everything I had hoped for from the Lord is lost" (Lamentations 3:18, NLT).

Then, out of the midst of his despair, he dared. He dared to hope in what he remembered.



He Remembered
The remembrance changed his perspective on his present situation. Jeremiah dared to hope. So can we,regardless of our circumstances. Jeremiah remembered this about his covenant Lord:

• His unfailing love for him
• His new mercies meant for him
• His never ending faithfulness toward him

God's Word is alive and active.
It is designed to transform us from the inside out. Reading God's Word brings you back to truth. Scripture is truer than anything we think or feel. During my desperate nights I longed for my circumstances to be different. But when I remembered God's faithfulness and mercies to me, my expression changed. My hope was back.

Did the circumstances surrounding my sorrows change because I remembered? No.
What changed was my outlook.
Hope means to wait with expectation, and this is what I chose to do during those hard nights.

Are you in need of hope today?
Will you choose to remember His faithfulness, love, and mercy despite the despair and destruction around you?
Will you dare to hope?

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Hurry!

Well, this is a confession/blog/evaluation of my life...

Things you need to know about me.
1)I am impatient. I want things, and I want them now.
2)I don't like waiting for people.
3)I don't like being late.

Things you need to know that God is teaching me.
1)Wait.
2)Let God change people.
3)Let go.

If you look in Scripture,how many characters in the Bible got what they wanted right when they asked for it? The only one that I know is Solomon...and He asked for wisdom...

But, think about the hall of faith in Hebrews?
Noah-it took him FOREVER to build that Ark. Yet, He obeyed God, and his life was saved.
Abraham-God told him to go. He went. God said he would have a kid. But, he had to wait until he was great-grandpa age.
Joseph-He was told he was going to rule over his brothers. He waited until after he was sold as a slave and thrown into prison after being falsely accused.

So, after reading this, here is what I heard on the radio this morning RIGHT AS I TURN IT ON...
The best things in life take the longest to get.

I literally growled outloud as soon as I heard that. Frustrating and calming. Frustrating because I know that means I need to wait for something. Calming because I know that the longer I wait, the better it will be. Well I am hoping so at least.

So, here is what I have gathered from this...

1. Have faith to know that God knows what He is doing.
Hebrews 11:6 And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.

2. Trust him enough to know His way is the best way.
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.

3. Wait on Him knowing He has a plan and there is a reason for everything!
Psalm 27:14 Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart. Wait, I say on the Lord.

4. PRAY!!
...I just read this in my email, so I copied and pasted it!...
There is nothing wrong with repeatedly asking for the same thing. As long as what you are praying for is within the will of God (1 John 5:14-15), keep asking until God grants your request or removes the desire from your heart. Sometimes God forces us to wait for an answer to our prayers in order to teach us patience and perseverance. Sometimes we ask for something when granting it is not yet in God's timing for our lives. Sometimes we ask for something that is not God's will for us, and He says “no.” Prayer is not only our presenting requests to God; it is God’s presenting His will to our hearts. Keep on asking, keep on knocking, and keep on seeking until God grants your request or convinces you that your request is not His will for you.

Invite the Broken

"He has blinded their eyes and deadened their hearts, so they can neither see with their eyes, nor understand with their hearts, nor turn—and I would heal them."
John 12:40 (NIV)

This is from Encouragement for Today [Christianity.com@crosswalkmail.com]
Years ago, I decided to save money and learn how to cut men's hair. With four males in my home, I figured electric clippers were a good investment. They were. After a few "oops" and "uh-ohs," I got the hang of it and have been cutting their hair ever since.

Recently, after finishing a trim, I dropped the clippers on the floor, knocking the blades from the holder. A quick examination revealed a very small piece of plastic had been chipped away. But the blades seemed to fit on fine, so I cleaned up the mess, brushed the clippers, and stored them in their box. Good as new, I thought.

Time for the next haircut arrived, and I retrieved the clippers from their box. I put the cape around my son's shoulders, snapped on the correct guide and proceeded to turn on the clippers. However, instead of hearing the normal electric purr, we heard a metallic grating. Apparently, that broken piece of plastic was actually important. Without it, the clippers didn't work right.

As I considered that incident, I realized many of us are like those clippers. At one time we have fallen emotionally. We've been hurt, betrayed, left out, overlooked. We carry scars from past relationships, jobs and bad choices. Most of us have been trained to pick ourselves back up and move on. We've been conditioned to put on a smile and pretend we aren't broken. The problem is most things that are broken don't fix themselves, and they don't work right until they are.

In the month between haircuts, that piece of plastic never jumped back on the clippers. Likewise, a leaking faucet doesn't just stop leaking one day. Buttons don't sew themselves back on. In every instance where something is broken, I've had to attend to it with care.

Sadly, I see many people walking around broken, pretending they are okay. Instead of acknowledging hurt and seeking healing from the One who can give it, they ignore it. Instead of seeking professional help when needed, they bury the pain, and hope it's deep enough to not bother them again. But the pain never really heals. It always pops up. And it affects current relationships and commitments when it does.

The truth is, none of us is as good as new. We are ALL broken in some way. We all have hurts we've buried and tried to move past. But that brokenness doesn't completely heal by itself. Thankfully, there is good news if you feel broken.

We serve a God who loves healing and wholeness. He knows it's painful to deal with past hurts. But He's willing to help. While we will never be "good as new" until heaven, we can be emotionally healed here on earth. Maybe we need to pick up our broken pieces, carry them in tender hands and present them to Jesus.

It may not be easy, and it will probably take time. But emotional healing is possible. After all, the One who conquered death, can certainly mend our brokenness.

What are YOU going to do about it?
THIS WEEK IS FRIEND DAY. THERE ARE MANY BROKEN PEOPLE THAT NEED HEALING. THE ONLY WAY THEY CAN BECOME HEALED IS IF YOU PICK THEM UP OFF THE FLOOR AND BRING THEM TO CHURCH.

ASK YOURSELF:
1. Who is God putting in my life today, this week, right now, that you can invite?

Pray:
1. For Boldness
2. For UNWAISTED opportunities
2. For your friends/family to open their hearts and COME TO FRIEND DAY!

Self-Control

I got this from online and changed a couple of things...good stuff!

Webster defines self-control as “control of one’s feelings, desires or actions by one’s own will; the power of controlling one’s external reactions, emotions, etc.; equanimity.” Roget lists as synonyms: restraint, self-discipline, willpower, mettle, resolve, composure and reserved.

The word temperance in the KJV conveys this idea of self-control and more. Unfortunately, it is usually now associated only with abstinence from alcohol or other intoxicants. The Greek word is best translated by the word “mastery” which indicates full control over self and the things which one may desire.

Bible Examples of Self-Control
There are numerous examples of men exhibiting heroic self-control in the Bible. Let’s consider three of these.

Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah are four more youths that demonstrated incredible mastery over themselves (Daniel 1). These four teens were brought from Palestine to Babylon by Nebuchadnezzar. His intent was to train them for service in the government. One aspect of their training involved their diet which was provided from the king’s table. For some reason this food and drink was regarded as unclean by Jews. It may have been unclean because of the kind of food it was, or it may have been so because it had been offered to idols (Leviticus 11; cf. I Corinthians 8) The drink may have been rejected because it was intoxicating (Proverbs 23:31; Isaiah 5:11, 22).

Again, these views would be ridiculed by most men today. The disbelief that youth can possess self-control is popular, even among the most educated. For example, Richard Keeling M.D. said, “Teenagers are going to drink no matter what the legal age is” (Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, 07/15/05). However, here are four teenagers that did not and they proved themselves the better for it (Daniel 1:12-16).

The greatest example of self-control found is that of Jesus. The Holy Spirit led Jesus into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil. The test began in earnest after Jesus had fasted for forty days and nights. Having had no food and no water Jesus was hungry (Matthew 4: 2). In this time of weakness, Satan came and tempted Jesus to turn stones into bread. But, our Lord refused because man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God (Luke 4:4).

It was only natural that Jesus should be hungry; there was no sin in hunger. Yet, Jesus understood that he must rely upon God for his needs to be supplied, and, so, He disciplined Himself. God had brought Him into the wilderness and God would provide (Psalm 78:19).

Learning Self-Control
Self-control is something which can be taught, learned, acquired and practiced. The Apostle Paul taught Felix the Roman Governor concerning the principles of self-control (Acts 24:25). Peter urged the Christians in Asia to supply or provide self-control in addition to their faith (2 Peter 1:6). The Hebrew Christians were chastened by Paul because they had not learned through the exercise of their senses to discern good from evil (Hebrews 5:13-14). Each of these examples demonstrates that self control is acquired through a rigorous spiritual education. We acquire it as we become more and more familiar with God’s Word.

1. We must grow in wisdom to the point that we can apply the Word to the various situations we encounter daily.Another means whereby we acquire mastery over the body is through planning. Paul urged that we make no provisions for the flesh (Romans 13:14). We must learn to avoid those things that tempt us to give in to our desires. Job made a covenant with his eyes (Job 31:1). Paul purposed he would not eat and drink (I Corinthians 8:13; Romans 14:21). The wise man said we should avoid wine altogether (Proverbs 23:31). Don’t be like the drunken cowboy who after taking the pledge continued to tie his horse up in front of the saloon on Saturday. Before long, he was back in the saloon.

2. We acquire self-control through moderation (1 Corinthians 9:25). It is possible to get too much of a good thing (Proverbs 25:16). Learning to deny yourself or restrain your participation in even harmless and beneficial things brings a discipline to life that is helpful (Proverbs 20:13; 23:1-3; Philippians 4:12).

3. Self-control is acquired only through a constant vigilance (I Corinthians 9:27). Paul “buffeted” his body; literally, he “beat down” the longings of the flesh. There is a constant conflict between the spiritual mind and the flesh (Galatians 5:16-17). Long term success is determined by the daily victories that result in a spiritual walk (Luke 9:23).

What are you thinking about?

What are you thinking about?

Philippines 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

1. Do you BELIEVE it is possible to not be anxious about ANYTHING? In life, there will be trials, disappointments, heartaches, and belly aches! But, through it, do you think you can stop and think of what it would be like NOT to be anxious about ANYTHING?

2. Do you believe you can go to God in prayer in EVERYTHING?
There is nothing too big or too small for God. Sometimes we think that God will look down upon us if we pray for the little things. Sometimes we feel like we have to deal with problems ourselves, instead of praying first.

3. Do you believe that God's Peace will cover your understanding?
God's Peace promises to surpass our understanding of the whys and what's of life. He promises to give us peace that is everlasting. Peace is something that people search for through relationships, drugs, work, money, success, or significance. Peace is given by God. No one and nothing can give you lasting peace that will transcend all your understanding.

4. Do you believe that God can guard your heart and mind?
God promises that his peace will also guard our hearts and minds. I know in my life, my heart has lied to me. The Bible says your heart is deceitful and wicked. Proverbs also says to guard your heart above all else.
What about your mind? What do you think about? If your thoughts were on a public screen for all to see, what would people say?

Would they say you love God or money?
Would they say you are judgemental? Hypocrite? Lustful? Prideful?

5. Do you believe that God can HELP you get over ANYTHING?
We all sin. The truth is that all of us would be ashamed if someone looked at our thoughts. But that is not an to not GUARD our thoughts.

Next week, I will talk about how to guard your thoughts. Thanks for reading!
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JOY

Definition of Joy
Joy- a state of happiness based on unchanging divine promises-. Joy is unchanging regardless of circumstances.

1. What brings you joy?
Is is your spouse? Your car? Your iPhone?...this is personal :), Your job? Your house? Your kids?

If we are honest, our mood is always affected by our circumstances.

I am not sure about you, but my joy button is turned off and on during traffic, break-ups,family problems,and so on. However, true joy has nothing to do with circumstances but everything to do with God.

2. Joy is God centered
It is God-centered because it’s living out a life knowing that God is the same today, yesterday and tomorrow. His word never fails and He is always good on his promises, regardless of what circumstances are happening around us at any given moment.

One of my absolute favorite verses is Phil 4:16-17
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything with prayer, petition, and thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the PEACE of God, WHICH SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING, will GUARD your HEARTS and MINDS in CHRIST JESUS.

3. Joy does not mean happiness.
Happiness is something you get temporarily. For me, the iPhone brings me happiness! It sounds funny, but sooner or later, I am not going to be happy with the iPhone 4 and I will want the newest one. THAT IS NOT JOY. Nothing can truly bring you joy except Christ, knowing that He loves You no matter what. Knowing that He has a plan for your life no matter what. Knowing there is a reason for everything. Knowing that God knows best.

Do not let circumstances dictate your life. Let God's peace, joy, and love dictate your life. Remember, life is short here. And there will be nothing better than spending an eternity in Heaven with Jesus. This life is short. Joy comes from God, not stuff.

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God is all you need

God is all You need.

Here are some things I have heard...
If I only had someone...
If I only could get a better job...
If she would just realize...
But, I need it...
But, It's worth it.
But, I know the consequences, and I am willing to pay for them.

2 Peter 1:3 His divine power has given us everything we need for LIFE and godliness through our KNOWLEDGE of HIM who called us by his own glory and goodness...

1. God gave you everything.
Not only did Jesus GIVE You everything through HIS LIFE,we now we HAVE everything we need for life. Just by us knowing HIM, we have everything we need.

Peter 2:9 if this is so, then the Lord knows how to rescue godly men from trials...

2. God will get you through anything.
There is no trial too big for God. God's word says above that the Lord will rescue us from trials!We may feel like we are at the valley, but know that there is a moutnain top ahead! (Read the whole chapter to get a better picture).

1 Peter 3:8b-9 But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years like a day. 9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promises, as some understand slowness.

3. God may make you wait through something.
This life is short. Waiting- is something that we fully don't understand. Time is of no value to God. God has no time. He is the beginning and the ending of life. So, when we feel like God is taking too long to do something, remember His timing is best. His timing is not slow. He keeps His promises when He says He will never leave us, He will rescue us from trials, He will comfort us, He will forgive us, He will be everything we need!


4. Give God everything
Since God keeps his promises, claim this one! I pray this verse allllll the time.
Matt 6:33 God, I am going to seek You first, your kingdom and righteousness, and I KNOW that all these things will be given to me!
If you feel empty, sad, lonely, upset, angry-KNOW that GOD promises that IF YOU SEEK HIM FIRST, He will bring all these things to pass and give you what you need.

Father, I pray that we would live our lives for YOU. I pray we would understand that Your timing and Your way is a lot better that our timing and our way. Amen

Patience through Delay

This post is going to be hard for me to type, because it is something I struggle with soooo much!

How many of you have ever been around people that drive you crazy because they twiddle their thumbs in line, sigh impatiently, roll their eyes when traffic is backed up, or complain about how long the lines are at DisneyLand in the busiest time of the year?

Well, that person is me. I used to think it was a "personality" trait. Some people are more patient with others. I do think that some people acquire more than others, BUT I do not think that is an excuse for people "like me" to not learn patience.

1. Love is Patient.
For most of us, we tend to think we are good at loving people. We say hi. We wave people in traffic. We smile at the waitress. We tip well. We hug. We say "I love you" to some people...but are we patient with them?

The first word that I Corinthians 13 describes love as is PATIENT. As we know, order is important! Love is Patient. Being patient with people requires that you have patience yourself!

2.Patience can be a result of suffering.
God does not rejoice in our suffering. He rejoices in our patience. He rejoices in what we have learned FROM being patient.

2 Corinthians 1:6 If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer.

3. Patience is a fruit of the Spirit.
Patience is something given to us from God already. Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,peace, PATIENCE..."
We have already received patience. We just need to activate it in our lives. Currently, mine is inactive, but I am slowly trying to make it a part of my Christian walk.

4. We learn patience through delay.
Many times, waiting on God to do something is very challenging. In the midst of it, we cannot stop wishing that something else would happen. But, would God allow it to happen if we didn't need it? Would God allow us to grow in patience if we already had enough of it? NO! God allows everything for a reason. Enjoy the time. Be thankful that God is teaching you something.Pray that you will learn what He is teaching you!

Psalm 27;14 Wait on the Lord, be of good courage and he shall strengthen your heart. Wait I say on the Lord.


James 5:8 You too, be patient and stand firm...

Proverbs 14:29 A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man displays folly.

Romans 12:2 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.

All the Single friends out there!

1. Marriage is far more than love! In the right situation, you can fall in love with ANYONE, but a marriage would be a disaster.

2. Nothing worthwhile is ever easy.
It may or may not take time to FIND the right person, but it will take effort to KEEP the right person.

3. You attract what you ARE, not what you WANT. If you want a godly lifemate, you must be one.

4. What we need is patience WHILE we are in the hardship.
Anything good takes time. Marriage is work (from what I hear). It is not like, whenever you get married, everything gets better. It gets different. Again, this is from what I hear! :)

Psalm 27:14 Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and he shall STRENGTHEN YOUR HEART. Wait I say on the Lord.

....All this to say, Marriage is NOT bad.I promise I am pro-marriage. BUT, like my friend said, marriage is great when God is in control. God is pro-marriage, but at his time and with the person God has for you. Don't rush. Don't force it. Let Go and Let God take control. YOU ARE NOT IN CONTROL. God knows us better than we know ourselves. He knows what we need more than we do!

Suffering

Friends, this came straight from my journal this morning. I keep reading the same things and keep finding out that order in the Bible is so cool!! And important!


God, the more I read Your Word, the more I realize that suffering is not an option. Actually, it is almost like, more suffering, the better. I am getting the feeling that is true. As I look at people I admire, they went through many hardships to get them where they are at right now.

I Thessalonians 5:16-18

16 Be joyful always. We are supposed to be joyful always. I see a reoccurring pattern here. Even though days may be hard, we are supposed to be joyful through it!

17 Pray Continually. Pray all the time. Instead of worrying, pray! Nothing ever comes out of worrying. You are not going to get it done faster, it can make yourself physically sick, and it is a sin! So, just pray whenever you feel anything. Put a reminder on your phone if you have to. Use post-its. Have it in your outlook program or your file-a-fax. Praying brings peace during trials.

18 Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. In trials, as hard as it may be, you MUST thank God for them. Why? Because God would not allow it to happen if he didn't need to teach you something. Trials bring us closer to God. Why? Because we realize that nothing else can bring us true peace than God himself. Relationships won't. Money won't. Jobs won't. Kids won't. Even ministry won't. Only God and God alone can bring us peace. So, when you are in a trial, say out loud. God, I thank you for this trial, because I know this is Your will for me! It is God's Will for you to suffer and have trials. Sometimes, it is the only way we will listen to Him. It is up to us to respond to the trial with joy, prayer, and thankfulness-knowing that this is God's will for us.

　

　

　

Philippians 4

I read Philippians 4 the other day,and I looked at the verses I had underlined in my Bible. But, I never noticed the order! It was amazing to see what God taught me from verses I have read OVER AND OVER! Here is what I got from Philippians 4 today.

1. Philippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always
Before you start presenting your requests, rejoice that you have them. Rejoice in the unknown, rejoice in the heartache, rejoice in the growing pains, rejoice knowing that there is a reason.

2. Philippians 4:6 Pray
God tells us not to be anxious, but in everything, with prayer, present our requests to God. God said that His peace will transcend all our understanding and will guard our hearts and minds.
a. We need His peace
b. We need him to guard our heart and mind from the “What if’s” of life.
c. We need to pray

3. Philippians 4:8 Think about things that are true
Scripture is truer than anything we think or feel! After we rejoice, and after we pray, God says to think about things that are true. “What if’s” are not true. They are not noble, they are not right; they are not pure, or lovely, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy. God says to think about thinks you know are true!

4. Philippians 4:12 LEARN to be content
After you rejoice, and pray, and think about things that are true, we must learn to be content with the situation or circumstance. “What if’s” do not like the word content. But, God asks us learn to be content, whatever the circumstances. Learning takes studying, and practicing. Study and practice being content. Sooner or later, you will learn it.

5. Philippians 4:14 God will give You Strength
God knew that trials would wipe us out of our own strength! That is why we have to rely on His strength. After you rejoice, pray, think about things that are true, make an effort to be content-realize that you can do all things through Christ that gives you strength!

6. Philippians 4:19 God will meet all your needs And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.He knows what you need and when you need it.

1. Rejoice always. 2. Pray to God. 3. Learn to be content 4. Think about true things. 5. Know God will give you strength 6. God will meet all your needs!

Father, help us follow You in these words. Amen

Waiting

I got this from this site- www.proverbs31.org-I just copied and pasted.It is good though. Exactly what I needed.

"Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD."
Psalm 27:14 (NLT)

Devotion:
Waiting: a virtue I aspire to obtain but often fail to achieve. How about you?

In our hurry up, need it, gotta-have-it-now culture, we have been brain-washed into thinking there is something wrong with waiting and we shouldn't have to do it. Within seconds we can know the weather in southern Mongolia, order a cute blouse from a trendy store, or Skype a conversation with a friend on the opposite side of the country. We can instant message a friend or send a tweet to thousands in the blink of an eye; no wonder we believe waiting is hard to do.

The author of today's key verse was no stranger to waiting and knew full well of its difficulties. Out of nowhere, the prophet Samuel showed up at his home to anoint the next king of Israel who was to be chosen from his family. Only one of Jesse's sons would be anointed as God's chosen king for His beloved Israel. The son chosen was David. Scripture tell us the Spirit of God rushed over David and was with him the remainder of his days (1 Samuel 16:13, ESV). With such an anointing one would expect David to run to take his seat on the throne, but the only running David did was back to the pasture to do his job. Thus his wait began.

In the wait, God prepared David for his seat on the throne. The only vocation David knew was shepherding. He did not know the ends and outs of kingly protocol or the rules of royal deity. David did not have the support of the people or armies to defend him as king. He was only a lowly shepherd boy. Instead of taking the position he was promised David waited for God to move him from the pasture to the palace. In the wait, God made David ready for the move.

David learned many lessons about waiting. By examining and applying these truths we can find hope in the difficulty of waiting and determine that waiting in the present is beneficial to our future.

1. Even though we are anointed and appointed we may still have to wait. David waited fifteen years to be king of Judah and even longer to be king of all Israel.
2. God's ways are not our ways; His thoughts are not our thoughts. After being anointed and appointed David was called to serve Saul, the king who was sitting on "his" throne.
3. God doesn't waste time; He holds it in His hands. He redeems it by using our experiences to prosper us in each season of life.
4. If we allow it, our waiting will bring us to an intimate knowledge of the Savior that we would not other wise have. Most of David's beautiful and poetic psalms were written while in caves, caverns, and the wilderness, waiting on God.
5. God does not ignore the cries of His children. David cried out, and at times begged God for help, invention, and defense. God never let David down. He did eventually take the throne, didn't he?
6. Our waiting has a purpose for someone other that ourselves. It is not all about us. Just think of how rich our lives are today because of the wait David endured. We have the comfort, compassion, hope, and healing of his amazing poetry.

What awesome instructions David gives for waiting! Waiting is less difficult and the future is brighter when we let God to do His work in our waiting season. When we let our guard and defenses down He proves Himself faithful to bring His plans for our lives to fullness.

Dear Lord, help me wait. Help me wait well. I want to be still and allow You to bring Your plan in my life to its fullness. I can't do this without You. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Daily Bread

Luke 11: One day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When he finished, one of his disciples said to him, "Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples."
He said to them, "When you pray, say:

Father
hallowed be your name
your kingdom come
Give us each day our daily bread
Forgive us our sins,
for we also forgive everyone who sins against us
And lead us not into temptation

Jesus gave us a model prayer. In that prayer, He asks God to give us each day our daily bread. Jesus did NOT ask for tomorrow's bread. He did not ask for the leftover's from yesterday's bread. He asked for today's bread.

How often do we dwell on tomorrow's bread? How many times have we said to ourselves,
I cannot get through this marriage.
I don't know what is going to happen with our kids.
My heart will never get through this heartbreak.
How will this work?
What does the future hold?

1.Focus on today. Can you get through your marriage until midnight? Can you make it through your heartbreak until tomorrow? Can you trust God with your day today? Can you place that stronghold in God's hands today?


2.Don't dwell on the unknown. Don't dwell on the future. You are only guarnteed today. Ask God to give you today your daily bread, whatever that may be. If you need strength today, ask. If you need wisdom today, ask. Jesus said HOW MUCH MORE will your Father in heaven give the holy spirit to those who ask him!

Right after the Lord's Prayer, He says in verse 9-Ask and it will be given to you!

Rememeber, God will give you what you need today. Trust God with today. Don't start chewing on tomorrows bread and don't dwell on yesterday's. He knows Your future and He has a plan for you.


Father, I thank you for being a trustworthy God. Whether or not we do trust You, You are still trustworthy. Give us what we need today to be more effective for You. Help us not to get weary is doing right. Thank you for not letting me know the future so I can learn to trust You more. Amen

God is greater than our hearts

To be completely honest, this blog is for me today. I need this.

Have you ever wondered why you feel a certain way, and wish you didn't? Ever had a "bla" day where you are not motivated? Don't care? Feel lost or misguided? Or perhaps just tired? Or maybe you feel emotional for no reason? Or you are irritable at everything and everyone?

I think we all can relate to one of those things. And even though you may only feel like that for a moment or a season in your life, how do you make the most of it and get over it?

1. Realize that God is greater than our hearts.
I John 3:20 even if our hearts condemn us. For God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything.
Sometimes, I feel something and I think it must be true. But, in light of past experiences, you know that is definitely NOT true! God knows our hearts better than we do! God's word also says that our heart is deceitful( Jeremiah 17:9) and that we are supposed to guard our hearts above all else ( Proverbs 4:23). So, just know that if you don't understand why you are feeling or what you are feeling, you don't have to! Just trust God and know that HE IS GREATER THAN OUR HEARTS!

2. Realize that God cares more about your character than your comfort.For me, I thought I was going to marry 2 guys that I dated...and I didn't. I FELT as if it was going to work out and it didn't! Well, then I go through the break-up stage, which is horrible! lol but I know that God cares more about my character than comfort. Sure, I could have married those guys, but then I would not have been in God's will and WE ALL KNOW THAT IS A BAD IDEA! Again, trust God! He cares for us! He would not allow us to go though a trial if is wasn't for our benefit and for our character building.

Romans 5:3-4 Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;perseverance, character; and character, hope.

3. Realize that God is everything you need. When you have unfulfilled longings, realize that God is the ONLY one that can fulfill those needs! Psalm 31:14-15 I trust in, rely, on, and am confident in You, O Lord: I say, You are my God. My times are in your hands.

HE LOVES YOU! RELY ON HIM!

4. Realize that without Him, your life will crumble.
Lean into God when life is hard. Don't run. You cannot run from God. You might as well run to Him. Whatever you do, realize that your life is nothing with God. Look around you and you will see broken, lost, helpless people without HOPE in ORANGE COUNTY, CALIFORNIA. Then, you will go to a foreign country and see people with no clean water, no food, but they have the HOPE of JESUS CHRIST and an eternal life to look forward to! Colossians 3:2 Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.

And the LORD will continually guide you, And satisfy your desire in scorched places, And give strength to your bones; And you will be like a watered garden, And like a spring of water whose waters do not fail. Isaiah 58:11


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Love you guys! Thanks for reading!

Do people like you?

So, this is what I learned today. So simple, yet soooo good!

How many of you know those people that never seem to stop complaining? They always have a sad story? They always have something bad to say? It always seems like something is going wrong in their life? Honestly, it is probably true. Their life probably is getting worse each day. And you know why? Because no one likes to be around someone who is negative! They will get less opportunities, more no's, and less invitations. I know this is harsh, but it is the truth.

1. Today I will choose to be happy/grateful.

What does that mean? Does that mean that whenever life hits us hard, we fake it and just pretend that everything is OK? NO. It means to focus on the positive. My Pastor always says that whatever is focused on gets magnified. So, if you focus on the negative, you will be negative. Here are some tips I learned to help us be grateful everyday.
-Write down 10 things that are going right in your life.
-Realize that if you are still breathing, God still has a purpose for your life!!

Answer your self these questions:
1. What are you excited about?
2. What are you proud of?
3. What are you thankful for?
4. Who do you love?
5. Who loves you?

Remind yourself everyday of these questions. Answer them. This will keep you pumped up.It will help keep you from focusing on the little negatives and to focus on the many positives.

2. Be likeable.

In the Bible, when Jesus was growing up, here is what the people had to say about Him. Luke 2:52 And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men.

How can you grow in favor with God AND man if you are negative all the time? You can't. In order to be in favor, Jesus had to be likable. Are you likable? Do people like to be around you? People that are likable have more opportunities, more yes's, and more invitation's. No, this is not about popularity. This is about having favor with God and man like JESUS.

3. SMILE
You get a different vibe from a smiling officer and a non-smiling officer. And this is not cheesy. When you smile, it can honestly brighten a room, especially when you are talking. It makes people feel at ease. I know that there are people I know that intimidate me because they NEVER smile. It is scary. You know it's true. It is a lot easier to talk to someone that smiling. YOUR FACE TELLS A STORY! Let people read it!

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Control Freak?

In his heart, a man plans his coarse, but the Lord determines his steps. Proverbs 16:9

I don't know about you, but I have been know to take things to the extreme. I will think up a whole entire conversation that I WANT to have with someone or I will think up something that someone said about me or the reason why they did something.
Am I relating to anyone??

Examples I have heard or experienced:

Think you should get that job, and you don't.
Think your kids would never do something like that, and they do.
Think a relationship will work out, and it doesn't.
Think you will stay in the comfort zone, and you move.
Think a person should respond a certain way, and they don't.
Think that a person is mad at you, and they are not.

1. Things never go they way YOU think they should. For us planners, we can think up a whole book based off of one page. I have been known to do that. I will get an idea in my head and then start planning of how and why it is just perfect. Lo and behold, God has something else planned.

2. Things go the way GOD thinks they should.
Let God choose your future. Don't try to plan it. God has a sense of humor and He will surprise you. Let Him. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you," says the LORD. "They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.
Let Him Choose when/if:

You sell the house
You will have kids/grandkids
You will get married
You will get a job
You will get a vacation!

He knows. Let Go and Let God choose for you!
You can plan all you want, but YOU ARE STILL NOT IN CONTROL!

Here are some verses that help me let go and Let God choose.

Proverbs 20:24
A man's steps are directed by the LORD.
How then can anyone understand his own way?

Proverbs 19:21
Many are the plans in a man's heart,
but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails.

Lord, You choose. I know that You know best. I want Your will to be done. Forgive me for getting in the way. I know that planning is good, but help me not to rely on MY plan and always rely on YOUR plan for my life. You choose Lord, You choose. Amen.

P.S. "Avoid irreverent babble and pointless discussions that lead your further away from God". 2 Timothy 2:16

Guard who you talk to and what you talk about!

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The Golden Rule

Right now our church is currently reading through the New Testament in 90 days. What I read today was a good reminder, but it also revealed something I need to change.

Have you ever thought that you were good at something, and then one day figure out that you were not? For example, I remember when I was 15 yrs old, I would sing in the car like I was the next American Idol with my sister and my dad in the car. I promise you that their faces looked disgusted when I sang. I remember they would tell me all the time how horrible I was, but I didn't believe it. Well, one day, my dreams of becoming a singer were shot because my sister told me I sounded similiar to a cat getting thrown into water.(Ok the last sentence probably didn't happen).

All that to say, I finally realized that I was not a singer.I thought about what my family had said. I listened to myself and compared my voice to good singers. Hmm. My parents were right. I'm not so great at singing.
At the time, I was devistated. Crushed. The only singing I did was by myself in the car or the shower for awhile. :(

Well in High School, someone told me that I should try out for choir. Me? Yeah right. Everyone gets accepted into Choir, and they wouldn't let me go in there.

So, this is what I read this morning. Matt 7:12 So in everything, DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO TO YOU, FOR THIS SUMS UP THE LAW AND THE PROPHETS.
At first, I thought, well I am great at that!(Just like I thought I was good at singing) I am an outgoing person. I work at a church. I read my Bible. So on and so forth....

Not really. I actually had a time of reflection and thought about times where I have treated someone a way that I would not have wanted to be treated.

For example, have you been quick to judge someone when they forget something? Have you been quick to get angry when someone gets under your skin? I know I have. I know there are times that I will work up this situation in my head of what I WOULD HAVE DONE IF I WERE THEM.

Matt 7:1 Do not judge, of you too will be judged.

Put yourself in the other person's shoes. How would you want to be treated?
James 1:19 says to be QUICK TO LISTEN, SLOW TO SPEAK, AND SLOW TO GET ANGRY.Think before you judge. Think before you speak. Think before you think you are good at something. God will show you that you always have room to grow!

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Be mocked or be given grace?

This is so exciting for me to share because it is new and fresh for me.

I am reading through the old testament right now.So, here is the setting and where we are at in the Bible.

I Kings 21-Ahab is King.Jezebel is Ahab's wife-the Queen. Elijah is around prophesying. And there is the guy names Naboth that had something the King wanted, but wouldn't give up.

Ahab wanted to trade with Naboth some land close to the Palace. Naboth had a vineyard near the palace.King Ahab was willing to give Naboth a better vineyard somewhere else OR just pay the guy for it. Naboth refused.

So,King Ahab throws himself a pity party and just sulks for a little while. Then, his wife Jezebel pretty much tells him to suck it up! After all, He is the King for crying out loud! Jezebel tells her hubby that she will "take care of it"...

Long story short, Jezebel schemes her way into having Naboth killed (the guy who owned the vineyard). Jezebel tells her husband that Naboth is dead. King Ahab went and got his vineyard. Problem solved.

Then, Elijah comes on the scene!
I Kings 21:20 "Ahab said to Elijah, 'So you have found me, my enemy!'".
Elijah: "I have found you, he answered, because you have sold yourself to do evil in the eyes of the Lord. I am going to being disaster on you. I will consume your descendants and cut off from Ahab every last make in Israel-slave or free.23-And concerning Jezebel the Lord says: Dogs will devour Jezebel by the wall of Jezreel.Dogs will eat those belonging to Ahab who die in the city, and the birds of the air will feed on those who die in the country".

Now-imagine this...
27-When Ahab heard these words, he tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and fasted. He lay in sackcloth and went around meekly.

28 Then the word of the Lord came to Elijah the Tishbite: 29" Have you noticed how Ahab has humbled himself, I will not bring this disaster in his day...

WOW! This amazes me! Ahab did evil in the eyes of the Lord.He was the villian. The bad guy.He was arch enemies with Elijah-a big wig in the Bible! Sure, I understand how God forgave David-being a "man after God's own heart". But Ahab??

Then, I realized the key point that changed God's mind.-humility.Ahab humbled himself.

Why does God favor humility so much? Why would he turn his wrath way from Ahab simply because he humbled himself?

1. God wants humility from us. Proverbs 3:34 " He mocks proud mockers, but gives grace to the humble. God shows grace when we realize who we are and who HE is. He knows that we want to be our own boss. We want to get credit. We want to act like we have it all together. Watch out! God will mock you! When, we realize that we are absolutely NOTHING without God, we realize that our lives are in the hands of God. He chooses each day we live. We really have no choice but to be humble when we think about it that way.

2. Satan fell because he wanted to be God. If a "used-to-be" angel struggled with pride, you bet we are going to struggle as well. God knows we are human. That is why He gave us His Word. That's why he gave us His Son-to show us the true form of Humility.

What or how could we be used more by God if we just humbled ourselves daily? What heartache would be spared? How much more grace would be shown to us?

Here are some verses put in prayer form to help us humble ourselves daily.
2 Chron 7:14 God, if your people , who are called by Your name, will humble themselves and pray and seek Your face and turn from our wicked ways, then will You hear from heaven and will forgive our sin and will heal our land.

Psalm 25:9 God, You guide the humble in what is right and teach us Your way.


Zep 2:3 I want to seek the Lord, all you humble of the land, you who do what he commands. Seek righteousness, seek humility; perhaps you will be sheltered on the day of the Lord's anger.

Ephesians 4:2 God I want to be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.

James 4:10 Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.

James 4:6 But YOU gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble."...THANK YOU!!!

Forgiveness

I have heard it said that bitterness is like drinking from poison and expecting the other person to die....watch this clip.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iv50xrsFNdU&feature=player_embedded
Link about Forgiveness

Everyone has their stories of sadness and sorrow. Some more than others. Some of those decisions have shaped us. Maybe for the good. Maybe for the worse.

But the fact of the matter is that there are many times we forget Jesus in our lives. There are times when we neglect what He says and we do not follow Him.
We run from Him.
We question Him.
We get angry with Him.
We reject Him and His Word.
We despise Him.
We use Him for the good but curse Him for the bad.
We don't want anything to do with Him.


And yes, after all of that, God still loved us enough to send His Son to die for us. Jesus forgave the sin and shame we carry. Even when we neglect, curse, question, or run from Him. He still and always will have open arms to take us back.

He decided to forgive us, knowing our past, present, and future sins.

If Jesus can forgive us, why do we struggle to forgive others? Let Go. Let God take care of it. He knows what you are going through. Trust Him. No one else understands what and why you are going through this. He is the only one that can give you the strength to forgive. He is the only one that can give you the courage to trust Him.

Mark 11:25
And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.

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Worry

I wonder why we worry about details in life? Do we think that if we worry that God will change it or that by worrying, something will happen faster or in a more convenient way? Bottom Line: God knows the whole future. He knows the when and what and how and where. Another Bottom Line: We know nothing. But we know the ONE who does. Let God lead...just follow.

Here are some scriptures to back that up.
Gen 43:23 "Relax. Don't worry about it," the household manager told them. "Your God, the God of your ancestors, must have put it there. We collected your money all right." Then he released Simeon and brought him out to them.
Gen 45:20 Don't worry about your belongings, for the best of all the land of Egypt is yours."
Rth 3:11 Now don't worry about a thing, my daughter. I will do what is necessary, for everyone in town knows you are an honorable woman.
1Sa 9:20 And don't worry about those donkeys that were lost three days ago, for they have been found. And I am here to tell you that you and your family are the focus of all Israel's hopes."
Psa 37:7 Be still in the presence of the LORD, and wait patiently for him to act. Don't worry about evil people who prosper or fret about their wicked schemes.
Pro 12:25 Worry weighs a person down; an encouraging word cheers a person up.
Jer 23:17 They keep saying to these rebels who despise my word, `Don't worry! The LORD says you will have peace!' And to those who stubbornly follow their own evil desires, they say, `No harm will come your way!'
Mat 6:25 "So I tell you, don't worry about everyday life--whether you have enough food, drink, and clothes. Doesn't life consist of more than food and clothing?
Mat 6:28 "And why worry about your clothes? Look at the lilies and how they grow. They don't work or make their clothing,
Mat 6:31 "So don't worry about having enough food or drink or clothing.
Mat 6:34 "So don't worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today's trouble is enough for today.
Mat 7:3 And why worry about a speck in your friend's eye when you have a log in your own?
Mat 10:19 When you are arrested, don't worry about what to say in your defense, because you will be given the right words at the right time.
Mar 13:11 But when you are arrested and stand trial, don't worry about what to say in your defense. Just say what God tells you to. Then it is not you who will be speaking, but the Holy Spirit.
Luk 6:41 "And why worry about a speck in your friend's eye when you have a log in your own?
Luk 12:11 "And when you are brought to trial in the synagogues and before rulers and authorities, don't worry about what to say in your defense,



God obviously knows us all too well. He knows it is in our habit to worry. Instead, we should TRUST. Trust means letting someone have control over something you want to have control over. Atleast that is what is spells out for me.

2Ch 14:11 Then Asa cried out to the LORD his God, "O LORD, no one but you can help the powerless against the mighty! Help us, O LORD our God, for we trust in you alone. It is in your name that we have come against this vast horde. O LORD, you are our God; do not let mere men prevail against you!"
Job 4:3 "In the past you have encouraged many a troubled soul to trust in God; you have supported those who were weak.
Psa 9:10 Those who know your name trust in you, for you, O LORD, have never abandoned anyone who searches for you.
Psa 10:14 But you do see the trouble and grief they cause. You take note of it and punish them. The helpless put their trust in you. You are the defender of orphans.
Psa 11:1 For the choir director: A psalm of David. I trust in the LORD for protection. So why do you say to me, "Fly to the mountains for safety!
Psa 13:5 But I trust in your unfailing love. I will rejoice because you have rescued me.
Psa 22:5 You heard their cries for help and saved them. They put their trust in you and were never disappointed.

Isa 26:3 You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, whose thoughts are fixed on you!
Isa 26:4 Trust in the LORD always, for the LORD GOD is the eternal Rock.
Zep 3:12 Those who are left will be the lowly and the humble, for it is they who trust in the name of the LORD.
Mar 5:36 But Jesus ignored their comments and said to Jairus, "Don't be afraid. Just trust me."
Jhn 14:1 "Don't be troubled. You trust God, now trust in me.
2Cr 3:4 We are confident of all this because of our great trust in God through Christ.
Eph 1:12 God's purpose was that we who were the first to trust in Christ should praise our glorious God.
Eph 3:17 And I pray that Christ will be more and more at home in your hearts as you trust in him. May your roots go down deep into the soil of God's marvelous love.
1Ti 6:17 Tell those who are rich in this world not to be proud and not to trust in their money, which will soon be gone. But their trust should be in the living God, who richly gives us all we need for our enjoyment.

Hbr 10:35 Do not throw away this confident trust in the Lord, no matter what happens. Remember the great reward it brings you!

Pick a favorite. Memorize it. Don't forget who You are and who HE is.

Follow your Heart?

In society today, you have all heard songs or people stating something like- you need to "listen to your heart", "follow your heart", if you "feel it" in your heart, it must be ok...

Scripture says the opposite.I think many times people think that their heart will guide and direct them to the "right" or "good" path. Even people that are Christians believe this is a good thing.

1. The Heart is Deceitful! Jeremiah 17:9 The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?
You cannot trust what you "feel". Feelings were given by God and yes we do need to express our feelings at times, but they should not ever drive us. We don't make BIG decisions based on how we feel.
For example: If I want to lose weight, am I going to exercise when I "feel" like it? No-because I would end up being obese because I like to eat. I exercise because I KNOW it is good for me...

2. Guard your Heart! Proverbs 4:23 Above all else, guard your heart for it it the wellspring of life.
Wow-I can think of time after time that I have not guarded my heart in relationships. I have given a guy my heart before he has given me a hello. Girls, you feelin' me here? (No pun intended). God says that ABOVE ALL ELSE. Not, when I think I should. Not when I feel like it. God says above all else guard your heart.

3. Give your heart to God.
If you think a feeling is from God, then pray about it and give it to God! He knows that feeling if He is the one that put it there. Check with God. Ask: Is this from You God? Or is it not?

Deuteronomy 4:29 But if from there you seek the Lord your God, you will find him if you look for him with all your heart and with all your soul.

Deuteronomy 6:5 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.

1 Kings 8:17 "My father David had it in his heart to build a temple for the Name of the Lord, the God of Israel....He had it in his heart. God gave it to him. It wasn't a feeling. It was a God given vision.

Psalm 16:7 I will praise the Lord, who counsels me; even at night my heart instructs me.

Psalm 26:2 Test me, O Lord, and try me, examine my heart and my mind;

Luke 10:27 He answered: " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind';

Get it? :)

Trust me, I don't. I am learning this!

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Patience

Again-I stole this from someone else. I will blog sometime this week, once it slows down :)

Living life consistently in the fruit of the Spirit takes effort and (some days) hard work. It can be tough because it's, unfortunately, unnatural.

One virtue in particular, patience, can be challenging. Especially the aspect of learning to wait for the best versus settling for the good.

So here are three tips for cultivating patience in your life:

1. Plan for patience. A new motto we've been using in at the studio is "leave margin." "Margin" is simply leaving room in all areas of your life for life to happen at a reasonable pace. Leave margin in your calendar. Leave margin in your workload. Leave margin in your checkbook. Planning for this amazingly breeds patience...leave extra early for an event with your family and you will see what I mean!
2. Practice patience. Patience takes work. Why? Because patience isn't really natural for the 21st century American. Everything is instant...instant rice, instant media, instant messenger, etc. It's amazing how little we wait for things...and heaven help us if we have to wait! Intentionally work at it. Pick a situation each day to practice patience. You're health and your relationships are worth it.
3. Pray for patience. I know that goes against grandma's ancient proverb "never pray for patience" but let's be real. If we truly want to be more like Christ in every virtue it's going to take something supernatural. Christ in our life transforms us from the inside out. Allow the Holy Spirit to make you prone to patience.

"The end of a matter is better than its beginning. So it's better to be patient than proud." Ecclesiastes 7:8, NIrV

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Declaration by Rick Warren

This is so good-I have to share it. I got this from a conference called RADICALIS.

TODAY I am stepping across the line. I'm tired of waffling and I'm finished with wavering. I've made my choice; the verdict is in and my decision is irrevocable. I'm going God's way. There is no turning back. I will live the rest of my life serving God's purposes, with God's people, on God's planet, for God's glory. I will use my life to celebrate his presence, cultivate his character, participate in his family, demonstrate his love, and communicate his Word.

Since my past has been forgiven, and I have a purpose for living and a home waiting in heaven, I refuse to waist any more time or energy on shallow living, petty thinking, trivial talking, thoughtless doing, useless regretting, hurtful resenting, or faithless worrying. Instead I will magnify God, grow to maturity, serve in ministry, and fulfill my mission in the membership of his family.

Because this life is preparation for the next, I will value worship over wealth, "we" over "me", character over comfort, service over status, and people over possessions, position, and pleasure. I know what matters most and I will give it all I've got.

I will do the best I can with what I have for Jesus Christ today. I won't be captivated by culture, manipulated by critics, motivated by praise, frustrated by problems, debilitated by temptation, or intimidated by the devil. Ill keep running my race with my eyes on the goal; not on the sidelines or on those running by me. When times get tough and I get tired, I won't back up, back off, back down, back out, or backslide. I'll just keep moving forward by God's grace. I'm spirit-led, purpose-driver, and mission-focused so I can't be bought. I will not be compromised, and I shall not quit until I finish the race.

I'm a trophy of God's amazing grace so I will be gracious to everyone, grateful for every day, and generous with everything that God entrusts to me. I am a RADICAL in the original sense of the word: rooted in Christ, rooted in love, and rooted in his Word.

I hereby declare my supreme allegiance to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I say this: However, whenever, and whatever you ask me to do, my answer is yes! I'm ready. Anytime. Anyway. Whatever it takes Lord; whatever it takes! I want to be used by you in such a way that on the final day I'll hear you say, "Well done, good and faithful one. Come on in and let the eternal party begin!"

Wow-that is all I can say. I really do want to hear from my Jesus, "Well Done". There will be nothing like it.

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Listen up

I was reading Proverbs 13 this morning-half asleep-and this verse jumped out at me. I knew this had to be a noteworthy verse if it caused the jaw drop. Prov. 13:10 Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice.

1. Pride causes arguments.
How many times have we started an argument because we think what we have to say is important because WE are RIGHT and THEY are WRONG? Or how many times are we thinking of something to say before the person is done talking to us? We are saying, what I have to say is more important and valuable that what you have to say. Just speaking the truth in love to me and you.
THEN-I read James 1:19 which says "be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry".

2. Slow to listen causes arguments.
How many times are you slow to listen, instead of quick to listen like God's Word says? I know I have. I remember talking to my sister several times about situations she was going through. Before she was done telling me her story, I was already telling her about my story similar to hers and how I would have handled it.

3. Quick to speak causes arguments .
I don't know about you, but when someone interrupts me, I am quick to interrupt back or remind them that they interrupted me. For example, I would say something like, "Back to the story I was telling", or "Ok, I am going to finish my story". I am sure if it bugs me, it bugs others. I know I interrupt and have been interrupted. Be slow to speak!

4. Quick to become angry is the argument!
The faster you get angry, the faster the other person is going to get angry! That sounds like a DUH statement but if we don't want to argue, why do you get upset so fast? Granted, there are times you cannot "let things go" and you must talk about it to find a solution. But, sometimes,we are arguing just to prove a point that WE are RIGHT. THE other person is WRONG. Speak the truth in love. Not in pride. Not in anger.

5. Listening creates wisdom!
Proverbs 13:10b says "wisdom is found in those who take advice". Stop, listen, and apply. When someone is talking to you, refrain from talking back and proving a point. Listen to what they have to say.

Friends, I am working on this myself. I don't have this down. What I try to do every morning to pray to God, "Lord, help me be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.

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The Secret to Being Content

OK I thought this was so good, that I just copied and pasted!

"Relevant Bible Teaching is the free Bible teaching ministry of Brent Barnett. Please visit www.relevantbibleteaching.com for more free Bible teaching"

Contentment is a tough thing to learn, but our God is able to teach us. Even Paul spoke of having to learn to be content, as if it was a struggle for him. He says in Philippians 4:11-13,

“Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am. I know how to get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperity; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both of having abundance and suffering need. I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.”

Paul had spent much time in desperate need, and at this time, he informed the Philippians that he had an abundance, thanks to faithful giving on the part of the church. Though he was grateful for their gifts, he did not put his ultimate confidence in material possessions, provisions, or even people. There will be times in life when we may have little, and there may be times when we have more than we need. Contentment, like joy, peace, and other gracious provisions of God, is not dependent upon circumstances. When things go well, we must remember that what God gives, He can also take away. Thus, we are to bless the name of the Lord for being God and the source of blessing, not exchanging our confidence in God for material possessions or even God’s good gifts themselves (Job 1:21). When things go poorly, we must remember that God is still faithful and on the throne. Thus, whether in times of abundance or in times of lack, our confidence, hope, and trust must be anchored in Christ.

Paul’s secret to contentment was that he found his hope, his confidence, and his sufficiency in Christ alone Who would give him strength to do His will (v. 13). The process of learning to be content is a process of coming to believe that, ultimately, God is in control, and we are not. Contentment rests in the sufficiency of Christ and His Word. Unless we understand our dependence upon God, believe it, embrace it, and rejoice in it, contentment will elude us. Contentment finds its strength, confidence, and hope in the sufficiency of Christ, in the promises of God, in the unchanging character of God, and in the complete adequacy of the Word of God. When we have all of these things, what more do we need? What can the world provide us that would make us exchange what we have and put our confidence in something else? In Christ we have all of the sufficiency and strength that we need to do His will.

Contentment rests in the good and sovereign purposes of God. If we have a view of God as all-powerful, all-knowing, sovereign, good, and perfectly and impartially loving, then there is no reason not to be content in what He ordains, allows, orchestrates, and provides. As Joseph said to his brothers who had done him great evil, “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good” (Genesis 50:20). Because of God’s promises, character, and Word, we can always have confidence that all that we experience is meant to work some ultimate good in us and perhaps for many others as well. Indeed, “God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28). No experience, whether good or bad, is purposeless. We are called for God’s purposes, and we can trust that God will use all events to work good for those who love God. Christ’s cross, the most unfair and brutal thing ever endured on this earth, worked for the greatest good of all time in providing salvation to those who believe. God had a purpose in this, and He has a purpose in our lives also. Knowing this, wherever we are, we can be content as we acknowledge Him and put our trust in Him (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Finally, contentment rests in God’s boundless love. Paul says in Ephesians 3:17-19, “[That you] being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God.” Whether we are in a prison cell or in a palace, we can be content if we know, believe, and trust in God’s love. Whether we are in a loving family or a family mired in sin, we can be content knowing that God loves us. Whether we are the most gifted person in the world or partially or totally disabled, we can be content if we rest in the love of God. God’s love is to fill us up such that our cup overflows (Psalm 23:5). His love is always available and abundant, and therein we can find contentment.

If we find ourselves panicking or doubting when we have needs, perhaps even using sinful measures to try to meet them, we need to learn contentment. If we find ourselves becoming self-sufficient and prideful when we have more than we need, we need to learn contentment. If we have just what we need, we need to acknowledge God’s provision and thank Him. No matter our situation, contentment is worth learning, so may God in His great grace teach it to us.

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Don't let Circumstances dictate your life

So, I went to the CA Highway Patrol this morning. The reason is NOT because of a car accident,speeding ticket, or any other reason comparable that that lol. I recently bought a car with salvage title, and if you buy a car with a salvage title, you have to go to the CA Highway Patrol for some paperwork. (Long story condensed)

Well, I had been there already a couple of days ago, but left disgruntled because I had to come back. I didn't want to come back. I wanted to be done. The office was NOT close and was not available convenient hours for the average hard working citizen.

Saying that, like I said, I went this morning. On the way, I called my mom and was telling her how upset I am going to be if I have to come back. Wait in Line. Again. Waste my gas. Again. Sign more paperwork. Again. Make another phone call .Again.

I know what you are thinking...You would feel the same way. Or you are very much more spiritual than I am, and are thinking, just go with the flow. Get a hold of yourself...I know, I should be like that, but I am not.

Good News-everything went as smooth as possible. I got there at 8:04am and was back in my car by 8:27am. Great Day! I was happy as could be! Music was loud, praising Jesus in the car, smiling and waving to the cars, letting people in...you get the idea. Good car Samaritan.

THEN, I started thinking about this-Would I have been in that great of an attitude if it took a little longer than usual? If I had to come back another time? Waste more gas? Wait for awhile?

Truth is, while I was in my car today, driving back, I couldn't answer that question, and be satisfied with an answer.

I realized that I was depending on the outcome of a circumstance to see if I was going to have a good day or not.

How often do we have a "bad" or "good" day based off of our circumstances? I know I have, all the time. Whether it's a date gone well, dinner gone bad, great idea failed,game lost,or a wonderful surprise in the mail.

Circumstances do not dictate your life or who you are.

If circumstances don't dictate your life, what does? What dictates your life?
Please give me your feedback! I would like to hear it!!

The Art of Trusting God

Trusting God-easy to say, difficult to do. Easy to do for a day, difficult to do for your life.
How many of you can say-THAT IS ME!!!

When I start making plans for myself, my future, my career, my spouse (or lack of), my money, my living situations, my family-sooner or later-you have to ask yourself, "What does God say? Is this His Plan or is this my plan?"

Things we do to feel trust

1. Make plans with God. This may sound good, but its not. Let me give you an example. Ok God-I think we should do this. So, please make that happen. God, you said that you will give whatever we ask for, so...I am waiting. OK-there is some truth to that. Yes, God says ask and it shall be given. But, the way we approach Him is not right. It reminds me of a little girl that TELLS her mom. Mom-you said that you love me and if you love me, you will take me to the store and buy me candy. So, I am waiting mom. That is just not true and it is not right! God does love us, but He loves us to know what is best for us. We don't know what is best for us!

2. Make plans without God. This one is obvious, but we do it so often! I caught myself doing it this week. I have a plan in mind that I think sounds like a great plan. I tell my friends about it, family about it, journal about it...Then, I have a friend that asks me this humbling question-Have you prayed about it? Have you asked God about it? My heart sank! I said to myself-I am a Christian, good Christian at that(ha), and I didn't even ask God what He thinks. I didn't ask or seek His advice. All of us do it.Don't use that an an excuse. Don't stay there. Correct yourself. Remind yourself who YOU are and who HE is.

3. Make plans and give them to God. This I believe is healthy. For me, this is saying, "God, I want Your will, not mine. I am praying for.... If this is your will, please reveal it to me. Please let it be if it is Your Will". When you give your plans over to God, you are showing Him that He is in control, not you. You are showing Him that you trust Him, not yourself. After all, the Bible says in Jeremiah 17:9 that the heart is deceitful above all things, desperately wicked, who can know it? Only God can know our hearts. He knows what is best for our lives.

He is in the just-in-time business. He is never early or late-He is always on time!


I am learning to trust God with things that are hard to do. I slip into the mindset of "if I think about it, or plan, or control,...then I realize-Where is God in this plan of mine? Pro 21:30 There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the Lord.


Proverbs 3:5-6 (New International Version)

5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;

6 in all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make your paths straight.

I challenge you to memorize this, say this, and meditate on this scripture! The more you make it apart of who you are, the more you will start living this verse out! I want to trust God with everything. Don't you?

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Inside Out

"But the LORD said to Samuel, 'Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart.'"

I Samuel 16:7 (ESV)


So often we humans look at what we can see on the outside—beauty, talents, smarts and such. God sees straight to the heart—motives, intent and character.


1. His measuring stick is far more accurate and important than ours. So many spend countless hours and dollars perfecting the former while completely ignoring the latter. God's Word to us is clear. Who we are inside is really who we are.

2. His surprising stick is far more accurate and important than ours. Have you ever been astounded when someone you know changed their life around for God, or a "loser" that ended up being a "winner"? I think again-God see's the heart. He knows that people look on the outside for their faults and failures. But, God sees their heart healing. He uses their faults to bring Him glory.

2 Corinthians 12:9-10 says "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

3. Remember-live your life from the inside out-not outside in.
There is a song that goes

A thousand times I've failed

Still your mercy remains

And should I stumble again

Still I'm caught in your grace


Everlasting, Your light will shine when all else fades

Never ending, Your glory goes beyond all fame

my heart and my soul, Lord I give you control

Consume me from the inside out Lord

Let justice and praise become my embrace

To love You from the inside out


Let's live our life loving God from the inside out.


If someone could see your heart like God does, what would they say?

If you could change something about your heart, what would it be?

Are you as "great" as you think you are?

Would you be content if you looked different, had different skills, not as many friends?


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Why God Why?

That's it-the why question. How many of us ask God or ourselves WHY things are happening? Why did you let me date someone that was going to break up with me? Why am I sick? Why did my parents get divorced? Why are finances so tight? Why is our family so messed up? Why is work so stressful? Why do I struggle with this sin so much? Why do I feel lost? Why does it feel like no one knows what I am going through?

TRUTH: YOU WILL NEVER KNOW THE ANSWERS TO THE WHY'S

We like to be in control. We like to know why things are happening and the solution to it to make it better. We want to know why we are going through what we are going through.

You might as well just face the facts that you are NOT in control over yourself. The more you spend time trying to figure out the WHY-the longer you will stay in that trial. God is smart enough and loves you enough to do what is best. Romans 8:28 And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.

TRUTH: GOD KNOWS ALL THE ANSWERS TO YOUR WHY'S.

This is a simple verse, but revolutionary if we start living this way:

Philippians 4:19 And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.”

Where am I going with this? Well honestly, this truth is something that cannot be read and be done with. It is a lifestyle change. It is saying daily, God You know best. You know the reasons why everything is happening. I may not understand why, but I know You do-and I KNOW YOU. You are saying to God, I trust you enough to obey you even when I don't know why or when I don't feel like it.

TRUTH: ASK WHAT INSTEAD OF WHY.

Sometimes, we ask the wrong question to God. We ask "why God is this happening?", instead of "What can I learn from this?". I am not saying that you have to be fake with God and convince yourself that you are Hunky Dorey when you are not. I am saying that you will get the most out of trials if you start asking God-what can you learn from this instead of why this is happening.

It changes your perspective into being a criticizer into a maximizer. The more open we are to what God is trying to teach us, the more we will get out of the trial.

How can you make changes in your life to start living you life like a maximizer? How can we stop being the criticizer?

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