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Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Waiting

Wait on the Lord….

I don’t know about you, but there are times when I have to wait….and wait…and wait…for something. The worst is in traffic, when you want to be somewhere at a certain time and you cannot be there OR or want something at a certain time and you cannot get it.

Yet, when I read Psalm 27:14, Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and he will strengthen your heart, it gives me comfort. Then, when I read Matt 6:33 that says, Seek 1st His Kingdom and His Rightousness, and all these things will be added unto you….it makes me think about how seeking God and waiting happen at the same time. You seek God, chase after Him, persue Him, WHILE you are waiting. God will meet all the needs you have. Just seek Him 1st…and wait. Hope you all have a great day!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

The Most Important Thing

Love.

God is love.

Love is the most important thing. IF we want to live like Jesus-then we have to love God and love others. Over everything. No matter what.

I went to a conference last week and one of the lessons was about how important love was.

When we get too busy to love people, we are too busy. When we get too holy to love unsaved OR saved family members, friends, siblings, co-workers, waiters, coaches, teachers...we are too busy!

If you read any of the gospels, you will find that Jesus was interrupted many times by people that needed something from Him. You can also read that He taught many times to love others more than yourself-more than anything. You are supposed to give them anything they ask for-no questions asked!

5:38 “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ 45 5:39 But I say to you, do not resist the evildoer. 46 But whoever strikes you on the 47 right cheek, turn the other to him as well. 5:40 And if someone wants to sue you and to take your tunic, 48 give him your coat also. 5:41 And if anyone forces you to go one mile, 49 go with him two. 5:42 Give to the one who asks you, 50 and do not reject 51 the one who wants to borrow from you.

5:43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor’ 52 and ‘hate your enemy.’ 5:44 But I say to you, love your enemy and 53 pray for those who persecute you, 5:45 so that you may be like 54 your Father in heaven, since he causes the sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 5:46 For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Even the tax collectors 55 do the same, don’t they? 5:47 And if you only greet your brothers, what more do you do? Even the Gentiles do the same, don’t they? 5:48 So then, be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.

How is that for Radical Love? How is that to literally empty yourself for others? Really-if Christians fid this, people would be drawn to us-like the Bible says-we woulb be a light.

Are we though? Do we really act any different then just a "nice person"? There are plenty of nice people. We need to be radical. We need to show radical love-wanting nothing in return.

Lord, I pray that all of us will take these verses to heart. I pray we would do anything for others-no excuses.No holding back. If we really want to be like Jesus-I pray we would follow by Your example and Your teachings. Amen

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Thursday, March 3, 2011

Leadership

21 Questions Leaders MUST Wrestle With!

I got this from a Pastor named Perry Noble...good stuff!

#1 – Do I understand who I am? James 1:1 – notice James didn’t identify himself as the brother of Jesus…but rather His servant! WOW!

#2 – Do I understand that ministry IS NOT easy? James 1:2-4 (when the writer BEGINS with these verses that’s a big time sign!)

#3 – Do I understand that I should spend more time on my face before God rather than worshipping the FACEBOOK God when seeking direction? James 1:5

#4 – Do you think that James is trying to get a point across…it’s not going to be easy…but we are called to be “in it to win it!” James 1:12

#5 – Do I understand it’s not IF I am tempted, but when…and IF I give into it then something WILL die? James 1:13-15

#6 – Do I understand that I am NOT THAT GOOD…that everything is a gift? James 1:16-18

#7 – HOW many bad decisions, arguments and misunderstandings could be avoided if we all simply memorized and applied James 1:19-20? (Also see James 1:26)

#8 – Do I understand I am not called just to preach the Word…but live it? James 1:22

#9 – Do I understand that showing favoritism WILL be a temptation…but I must always war against it? James 2:1-4

#10 – Do I understand that I am called to live and lead by faith…and if I am not taking steps of faith in my life and ministry then my faith is DEAD? James 2:14-26

#11 – Do I understand the weight of James 3:1? WOW!!!

#12 – Do I fully understand that when I become envious and selfish then that is simply the beginning of the end? James 3:13-18

#13 – Do I have the proper motives in regards to leading this ministry? James 4:1-3

#14 – Am I being opposed by God or is He offering me grace? James 4:6

#15 – Am I using my platform (whether it is speaking or the internet) to falsely attack, accuse and twist people’s words around? James 4:11-12

#16 – Do I understand my days are numbered, that I’ve got one shot at this life and I need to do all that I can to honor the One who called me? James 4:13-17

#17 – Do I understand that there are seasons of growth and seasons of preparation…and in those seasons of preparation I should not become impatient, but rather wait on God? James 5:7-8

#18 – Do I understand that integrity HAS to be a priority in my life and ministry? James 5:12

#19 – Do I understand that I cannot do this alone, that I need accountability in my life? James 5:16

#20 – Do I fully comprehend James 5:17-18…that Elijah was just like one of us? He literally called fire down from heaven! He prayed for rain…and it rained! I want THAT kind of faith!

#21 – Do I understand that ministry is messy…that I am called and expected to have tough conversations with the person that the Lord places on my heart, but in doing so the potential is unlimited? James 5:19-20

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Forgiveness

Luke 7:47 (MSG) Impressive, isn't it? She was forgiven many, many sins, and so she is very, very grateful. If the forgiveness is minimal, the gratitude is minimal.

Have you ever heard those stories of people that were addicted to drugs? Alcoholics? Gamblers? Sexually impure?

THEN-they have a GOD MOMENT-like Paul in the Bible-on their face blinded before God?
And everything changed.

OR-they have a God MOMENT-like 9 lepers in the Bible-healed from their disease and didn't even say thank you.

So what was the difference? How is is that people that have been forgiven and healed act like nothing ever happened?

1. They are not thankful.
SO many times in the Bible, it talks about giving thanks, being thankful, in all things bring praise, let everything that has breath praise the Lord. YET-time and again, we forget what God has done for us.

2. We focus on what we don't have instead of what we do have.
How much easier is it to write out a list of things that you need instead of things what you have? Our prayers usually are more requests than praises. Lord, I need this. Lord, give me this.
1. Asking for things is NOT wrong.
2. Asking for things without being thankful IS wrong.
3. Asking for things with a bad attitude IS wrong.

So-how do you become like Paul? How do you become thankful and full of gratitude?

1. Change your attitude.
Yes-be positive. Yes-be thankful. Yes-stop complaining. Yes-stop acting like everything in your life is wrong.

No-I am not saying that your life is perfect. No-I am not saying that life is easy. No-I am not saying that your challenges are more than I can even begin to comprehend.

Yes-I am saying that GOD KNOWS! Yes-God has a plan. Yes-God will see YOU through! Yes-You have the strength through Christ! Yes-all things work together for good. Yes-You can trust God with everything.

2. Stay in His Word.
Nothing and no one will fill your need except Jesus Christ. Matt 6:33 Seek Him and his righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well.


3. Stay on your knees.
Phil 4:6-7 Don't be anxious about anything, but in everything...with prayer and thanks...present your requests to God...and He will give you peace!

Thank God. Stay close to God. Live for God.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Faith

James 2:14 What good is it, dear brothers and sisters, if you say you have faith but don’t show it by your actions? Can that kind of faith save anyone?
15 Suppose you see a brother or sister who has no food or clothing,
16 and you say, “Good-bye and have a good day; stay warm and eat well”—but then you don’t give that person any food or clothing. What good does that do?

17 So you see, faith by itself isn’t enough. Unless it produces good deeds, it is dead and useless.

18 Now someone may argue, “Some people have faith; others have good deeds.” But I say, “How can you show me your faith if you don’t have good deeds? I will show you my faith by my good deeds.”

This passage struck me today. The reason why is because we are raised to think one or the other. Salvation alone gets you to heaven OR Good Works gets you to heaven.

Ofcoarse, Salvation in Jesus Christ is how you have a relationship with Him, but if my faith is dead without works, what does that mean? How can some people say that they are Christians if they do not perform good deeds?

Here is the analogy that came to me.

Salvation is like a marriage.
1st step is:
1. You get married. Now once you are married. That's it. You can't say, "I am kinda married." Or "I think I am married." Once you are married, you are in! You are either married or not.
That is how salvation is. Once you accept Christ, are you in! You cannot say, "I kinda am saved". Or "I think I am saved." You are either saved, or not. There is no middle.

2. You give and take. Suppose you get married, but you never listen to the person. You never talk to the person. You never do anything for the person. And you are unfaithful to that person....are you REALLY married? Yes, you have the certificate and the ring, but let's face it, your marriage is dead. I wouldn't want to be in THAT kind of marriage.

This is like your relationship with God. Yes, you are saved once you ask Him into Your heart. But, if you never talk to Him(pray), and you never listen to Him (read your Bible), and never do anything for Him(good deeds), and are unfaithful,(putting anything before HIM), YOU RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS DEAD!

The wedding day is just the beginning of marriage. And Salvation is just the beginning of your walk with Christ. Your relationships are either inclining or declining.

I am not saying that you need to be Mother Teresa or live a perfect life. That is impossible. What I am saying is you need to be fruitful. Faith without works in dead. Your faith is dead unless you are DOING something for Christ. Just like your marriage is dead unless you are DOING something in the marriage.

So, instead of making excuses of why your relationship with God is not where you want it to be, DO SOMETHING. Don't blame it on the Pastor's "shallow teaching". Or your "busy schedule." Take the blame. Man up. You are responsible for YOUR relationships. No one else. YOU. So, like Nike says it: Just do it.

Start living OUT your faith. Stop talking and start doing. IN your relationship with God and others.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Quick Tips on how to NOT worry!

Worrying can have harmful effects on our lives. There really is no solution when you worry, it only creates more problems for yourself in the long run. Consider these four techniques on analyzing the situation at hand in order to minimize worry.

* Get all the facts
* Weigh all the facts - then come to a decision
* Once a decision is reached, act!
* Analyze the problem:

* What is the problem?
* What are the causes of the problem?
* What are the possible solutions?
* What is the best solution?

From: DALE CARNEGIE SUCCESS TIP OF THE WEEK.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

What's wrong with me?

What's wrong with me?

I am sure many of you have asked yourself that question before. Maybe it sounds something like this...

-I can seem to give up this sin. What's wrong with me?
-I didn't get that promotion that I worked so hard for. What's wrong with me?
-I haven't had a date in forever. What's wrong with me?
-My kids don't understand and I don't understand them. What's wrong with me?
-I lost my job. What's wrong with me?
-I feel sad all the time. What's wrong with me?
-My marriage is not as it should be. What's wrong with me?
-My struggles seem to overpower me. I can't get out. What's wrong with me?
- I am still waiting for the right job, right person, right house, right ________.=

WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME??

Well, I have good news and bad news.

Bad News: There is A LOT wrong with you! You don't have it all together. You do struggle. You are a mess. You can't do everything right.

Good News: EVERYBODY has a lot wrong with them!

Instead of focusing on what is wrong with you, you need to focus on what God has done FOR YOU!

1. You cannot EARN good standing with God. Jesus already paid the price. So, anytime you are beating yourself up for what is wrong with you, STOP! It is not biblical. Conviction is biblical. Guilt is not. No one is perfect.

Romans 8:1 So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus.

2. You are NOT condemned. You are redeemed!

Isaiah 52:3 For this is what the Lord says: "You were sold for nothing, and without money you will be redeemed. ....this is absolutely beautiful and so refreshing!! Read it again!

Next time, you start to ask yourself, "What's wrong with me?", STOP! You are made BY God and FOR GOD!! He doesn't make junk. He knows your downfalls AND STILL LOVES YOU!

No one else will love you unconditionally like God will. He will always love You, no matter what you do or don't do. Child, You are Redeemed!

Monday, October 25, 2010

21 tips for success...good stuff!



Sorry the font is so small, but this is good stuff!

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Why are you here?

Why are you here?

I got some of this from another blog. It is supposed to be for single people waiting for the right person, but I think this relates to anyone that worries. Anyone that feels like their life is out of control. Anyone that wonders why they are here on earth.

Today I was running with a friend and we were talking about how so many times, we plan for the future.But we forget about today. We forget that God gave us today for a reason. If we are not dead, there is a reason for today. God gives us each day to fulfill His purpose.

Think about it: Would God give you one more day if He did not have a specific plan for You that day?

And He only guarantees us one day at a time. Remember the prayer? Give us this day our DAILY BREAD? Jesus didn't ask for 2 weeks supply of bread. He didn't ask for a year's worth of bread.. He asked for a day. That's it. Why? Because that is all we are guaranteed at a time. That is all we need at a time.

Think about it:If we asked for a month's worth of bread, what would happen to it?
It would go to waste.
It would be heavy to carry.
It would be burdensome.
It would be frozen for goodness sakes!

So, why do we ask to know the future more than a day at a time? Yes, I think it is good to plan for the future.

But, it is NEVER good to worry about the future. Why?
It is wasted time and thoughts.
It is heavy to carry around.
It is burdensome.
It is frozen in future, until God gives you another day.


The Holy Spirit has convicted me and grown me in how I steward my time.

Each time I start to struggle,worry,think about my waiting, I have to ask myself the following questions:
Do I trust that he has ordained my days? (Psalm 139: 5, 6, 16)
Do I trust that he supplies all I need? (Matthew 6:32)
Do I trust that never will he leave me or forsake me? (Joshua 1:5)
Do I trust that who I am in Christ defines me? (Colossians 2:10)
Do I trust that God always has a plan in everything? (Jeremiah 29:11)

If I am trying to just hang on until I get married, or until I get that job, or until I have kids, or until I get over this certain struggle, and don’t accept this season, then I am saying that these days that God has ordained are not enough, that he made a mistake and is a liar.

The simple truth is that he takes care of my every need and provides all that I need—if I don’t have it, I don’t need it. And I can rest in this because I know he is a loving God.

God does not look at me as a mistake but through the work Jesus did on the cross. Who I am in Jesus is what defines me, and that is where I am to look for my identity. I know I need to be in loving community. I need to spend time in God’s word to know his promises and his truth: that God is perfect, loving, wise, and sovereign, and I am his daughter. The daughter of a King.

“I know nothing more effective for quieting a Christian soul and getting contentment than this: setting your heart to work in the duties of the immediate circumstances that you are in now, and taking hold of your thoughts about other conditions as mere temptations.” • Jeremiah Burroughs

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” • Romans 15:13

So why are you here? To serve and worship God with every day! Don't focus on the past.Don't focus on the negative. Don't focus on the worries. Focus on God. Focus on today. What opportunity has God given you TODAY? How can God use you TODAY? Remember if He didn't have a plan for you today, you would be dead! So, don't waste today worrying about tomorrow! Live for today.


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Monday, October 4, 2010

Dare to Hope

"Yet I still dare to hope when I remember this."
Lamentations 3:21 (NLT)


Ask yourself:
1.Have you ever cried until the tears would no longer come and your heart was broken in tiny pieces?
2.Have you ever uttered, "Everything I hope for from the Lord is lost?" Then you, me and Jeremiah make three.

I am sure all of us have stories of regret. Stories of disappointment. Stories of hurt. Whether it is relationships, jobs, family, or the lack of something, everyone has a story.

(From Christianitytoday.com)Jeremiah, also known as the weeping prophet, found himself in a hopeless situation as he watched the Temple of the Lord being burned to the ground by the Babylonians. His heart broke. The elements of the Temple such as the water basin and lamp snuffers were stolen, taken to Babylon to be used to worship false gods.

Jeremiah cried until no more tears would come (Lamentations 2:11, NLT). His heart was broken for Jerusalem and for God's people, his people. In anguish he lamented the words, "Everything I had hoped for from the Lord is lost" (Lamentations 3:18, NLT).

Then, out of the midst of his despair, he dared. He dared to hope in what he remembered.



He Remembered
The remembrance changed his perspective on his present situation. Jeremiah dared to hope. So can we,regardless of our circumstances. Jeremiah remembered this about his covenant Lord:

• His unfailing love for him
• His new mercies meant for him
• His never ending faithfulness toward him

God's Word is alive and active.
It is designed to transform us from the inside out. Reading God's Word brings you back to truth. Scripture is truer than anything we think or feel. During my desperate nights I longed for my circumstances to be different. But when I remembered God's faithfulness and mercies to me, my expression changed. My hope was back.

Did the circumstances surrounding my sorrows change because I remembered? No.
What changed was my outlook.
Hope means to wait with expectation, and this is what I chose to do during those hard nights.

Are you in need of hope today?
Will you choose to remember His faithfulness, love, and mercy despite the despair and destruction around you?
Will you dare to hope?

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Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Hurry!

Well, this is a confession/blog/evaluation of my life...

Things you need to know about me.
1)I am impatient. I want things, and I want them now.
2)I don't like waiting for people.
3)I don't like being late.

Things you need to know that God is teaching me.
1)Wait.
2)Let God change people.
3)Let go.

If you look in Scripture,how many characters in the Bible got what they wanted right when they asked for it? The only one that I know is Solomon...and He asked for wisdom...

But, think about the hall of faith in Hebrews?
Noah-it took him FOREVER to build that Ark. Yet, He obeyed God, and his life was saved.
Abraham-God told him to go. He went. God said he would have a kid. But, he had to wait until he was great-grandpa age.
Joseph-He was told he was going to rule over his brothers. He waited until after he was sold as a slave and thrown into prison after being falsely accused.

So, after reading this, here is what I heard on the radio this morning RIGHT AS I TURN IT ON...
The best things in life take the longest to get.

I literally growled outloud as soon as I heard that. Frustrating and calming. Frustrating because I know that means I need to wait for something. Calming because I know that the longer I wait, the better it will be. Well I am hoping so at least.

So, here is what I have gathered from this...

1. Have faith to know that God knows what He is doing.
Hebrews 11:6 And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.

2. Trust him enough to know His way is the best way.
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.

3. Wait on Him knowing He has a plan and there is a reason for everything!
Psalm 27:14 Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart. Wait, I say on the Lord.

4. PRAY!!
...I just read this in my email, so I copied and pasted it!...
There is nothing wrong with repeatedly asking for the same thing. As long as what you are praying for is within the will of God (1 John 5:14-15), keep asking until God grants your request or removes the desire from your heart. Sometimes God forces us to wait for an answer to our prayers in order to teach us patience and perseverance. Sometimes we ask for something when granting it is not yet in God's timing for our lives. Sometimes we ask for something that is not God's will for us, and He says “no.” Prayer is not only our presenting requests to God; it is God’s presenting His will to our hearts. Keep on asking, keep on knocking, and keep on seeking until God grants your request or convinces you that your request is not His will for you.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Invite the Broken

"He has blinded their eyes and deadened their hearts, so they can neither see with their eyes, nor understand with their hearts, nor turn—and I would heal them."
John 12:40 (NIV)


This is from Encouragement for Today [Christianity.com@crosswalkmail.com]
Years ago, I decided to save money and learn how to cut men's hair. With four males in my home, I figured electric clippers were a good investment. They were. After a few "oops" and "uh-ohs," I got the hang of it and have been cutting their hair ever since.

Recently, after finishing a trim, I dropped the clippers on the floor, knocking the blades from the holder. A quick examination revealed a very small piece of plastic had been chipped away. But the blades seemed to fit on fine, so I cleaned up the mess, brushed the clippers, and stored them in their box. Good as new, I thought.

Time for the next haircut arrived, and I retrieved the clippers from their box. I put the cape around my son's shoulders, snapped on the correct guide and proceeded to turn on the clippers. However, instead of hearing the normal electric purr, we heard a metallic grating. Apparently, that broken piece of plastic was actually important. Without it, the clippers didn't work right.

As I considered that incident, I realized many of us are like those clippers. At one time we have fallen emotionally. We've been hurt, betrayed, left out, overlooked. We carry scars from past relationships, jobs and bad choices. Most of us have been trained to pick ourselves back up and move on. We've been conditioned to put on a smile and pretend we aren't broken. The problem is most things that are broken don't fix themselves, and they don't work right until they are.

In the month between haircuts, that piece of plastic never jumped back on the clippers. Likewise, a leaking faucet doesn't just stop leaking one day. Buttons don't sew themselves back on. In every instance where something is broken, I've had to attend to it with care.

Sadly, I see many people walking around broken, pretending they are okay. Instead of acknowledging hurt and seeking healing from the One who can give it, they ignore it. Instead of seeking professional help when needed, they bury the pain, and hope it's deep enough to not bother them again. But the pain never really heals. It always pops up. And it affects current relationships and commitments when it does.

The truth is, none of us is as good as new. We are ALL broken in some way. We all have hurts we've buried and tried to move past. But that brokenness doesn't completely heal by itself. Thankfully, there is good news if you feel broken.

We serve a God who loves healing and wholeness. He knows it's painful to deal with past hurts. But He's willing to help. While we will never be "good as new" until heaven, we can be emotionally healed here on earth. Maybe we need to pick up our broken pieces, carry them in tender hands and present them to Jesus.

It may not be easy, and it will probably take time. But emotional healing is possible. After all, the One who conquered death, can certainly mend our brokenness.

What are YOU going to do about it?
THIS WEEK IS FRIEND DAY. THERE ARE MANY BROKEN PEOPLE THAT NEED HEALING. THE ONLY WAY THEY CAN BECOME HEALED IS IF YOU PICK THEM UP OFF THE FLOOR AND BRING THEM TO CHURCH.

ASK YOURSELF:
1. Who is God putting in my life today, this week, right now, that you can invite?

Pray:
1. For Boldness
2. For UNWAISTED opportunities
2. For your friends/family to open their hearts and COME TO FRIEND DAY!

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Self-Control

I got this from online and changed a couple of things...good stuff!

Webster defines self-control as “control of one’s feelings, desires or actions by one’s own will; the power of controlling one’s external reactions, emotions, etc.; equanimity.” Roget lists as synonyms: restraint, self-discipline, willpower, mettle, resolve, composure and reserved.

The word temperance in the KJV conveys this idea of self-control and more. Unfortunately, it is usually now associated only with abstinence from alcohol or other intoxicants. The Greek word is best translated by the word “mastery” which indicates full control over self and the things which one may desire.

Bible Examples of Self-Control
There are numerous examples of men exhibiting heroic self-control in the Bible. Let’s consider three of these.

Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael and Azariah are four more youths that demonstrated incredible mastery over themselves (Daniel 1). These four teens were brought from Palestine to Babylon by Nebuchadnezzar. His intent was to train them for service in the government. One aspect of their training involved their diet which was provided from the king’s table. For some reason this food and drink was regarded as unclean by Jews. It may have been unclean because of the kind of food it was, or it may have been so because it had been offered to idols (Leviticus 11; cf. I Corinthians 8) The drink may have been rejected because it was intoxicating (Proverbs 23:31; Isaiah 5:11, 22).

Again, these views would be ridiculed by most men today. The disbelief that youth can possess self-control is popular, even among the most educated. For example, Richard Keeling M.D. said, “Teenagers are going to drink no matter what the legal age is” (Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, 07/15/05). However, here are four teenagers that did not and they proved themselves the better for it (Daniel 1:12-16).

The greatest example of self-control found is that of Jesus. The Holy Spirit led Jesus into the wilderness to be tempted of the devil. The test began in earnest after Jesus had fasted for forty days and nights. Having had no food and no water Jesus was hungry (Matthew 4: 2). In this time of weakness, Satan came and tempted Jesus to turn stones into bread. But, our Lord refused because man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God (Luke 4:4).

It was only natural that Jesus should be hungry; there was no sin in hunger. Yet, Jesus understood that he must rely upon God for his needs to be supplied, and, so, He disciplined Himself. God had brought Him into the wilderness and God would provide (Psalm 78:19).

Learning Self-Control

Self-control is something which can be taught, learned, acquired and practiced. The Apostle Paul taught Felix the Roman Governor concerning the principles of self-control (Acts 24:25). Peter urged the Christians in Asia to supply or provide self-control in addition to their faith (2 Peter 1:6). The Hebrew Christians were chastened by Paul because they had not learned through the exercise of their senses to discern good from evil (Hebrews 5:13-14). Each of these examples demonstrates that self control is acquired through a rigorous spiritual education. We acquire it as we become more and more familiar with God’s Word.

1. We must grow in wisdom to the point that we can apply the Word to the various situations we encounter daily.Another means whereby we acquire mastery over the body is through planning. Paul urged that we make no provisions for the flesh (Romans 13:14). We must learn to avoid those things that tempt us to give in to our desires. Job made a covenant with his eyes (Job 31:1). Paul purposed he would not eat and drink (I Corinthians 8:13; Romans 14:21). The wise man said we should avoid wine altogether (Proverbs 23:31). Don’t be like the drunken cowboy who after taking the pledge continued to tie his horse up in front of the saloon on Saturday. Before long, he was back in the saloon.

2. We acquire self-control through moderation (1 Corinthians 9:25). It is possible to get too much of a good thing (Proverbs 25:16). Learning to deny yourself or restrain your participation in even harmless and beneficial things brings a discipline to life that is helpful (Proverbs 20:13; 23:1-3; Philippians 4:12).

3. Self-control is acquired only through a constant vigilance (I Corinthians 9:27). Paul “buffeted” his body; literally, he “beat down” the longings of the flesh. There is a constant conflict between the spiritual mind and the flesh (Galatians 5:16-17). Long term success is determined by the daily victories that result in a spiritual walk (Luke 9:23).

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

What are you thinking about?

What are you thinking about?

Philippines 4:6-7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

1. Do you BELIEVE it is possible to not be anxious about ANYTHING? In life, there will be trials, disappointments, heartaches, and belly aches! But, through it, do you think you can stop and think of what it would be like NOT to be anxious about ANYTHING?

2. Do you believe you can go to God in prayer in EVERYTHING?
There is nothing too big or too small for God. Sometimes we think that God will look down upon us if we pray for the little things. Sometimes we feel like we have to deal with problems ourselves, instead of praying first.

3. Do you believe that God's Peace will cover your understanding?
God's Peace promises to surpass our understanding of the whys and what's of life. He promises to give us peace that is everlasting. Peace is something that people search for through relationships, drugs, work, money, success, or significance. Peace is given by God. No one and nothing can give you lasting peace that will transcend all your understanding.

4. Do you believe that God can guard your heart and mind?

God promises that his peace will also guard our hearts and minds. I know in my life, my heart has lied to me. The Bible says your heart is deceitful and wicked. Proverbs also says to guard your heart above all else.
What about your mind? What do you think about? If your thoughts were on a public screen for all to see, what would people say?

Would they say you love God or money?
Would they say you are judgemental? Hypocrite? Lustful? Prideful?

5. Do you believe that God can HELP you get over ANYTHING?

We all sin. The truth is that all of us would be ashamed if someone looked at our thoughts. But that is not an to not GUARD our thoughts.

Next week, I will talk about how to guard your thoughts. Thanks for reading!
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Wednesday, August 25, 2010

JOY

Definition of Joy
Joy- a state of happiness based on unchanging divine promises-. Joy is unchanging regardless of circumstances.

1. What brings you joy?
Is is your spouse? Your car? Your iPhone?...this is personal :), Your job? Your house? Your kids?

If we are honest, our mood is always affected by our circumstances.

I am not sure about you, but my joy button is turned off and on during traffic, break-ups,family problems,and so on. However, true joy has nothing to do with circumstances but everything to do with God.

2. Joy is God centered
It is God-centered because it’s living out a life knowing that God is the same today, yesterday and tomorrow. His word never fails and He is always good on his promises, regardless of what circumstances are happening around us at any given moment.

One of my absolute favorite verses is Phil 4:16-17
Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything with prayer, petition, and thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the PEACE of God, WHICH SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING, will GUARD your HEARTS and MINDS in CHRIST JESUS.


3. Joy does not mean happiness.
Happiness is something you get temporarily. For me, the iPhone brings me happiness! It sounds funny, but sooner or later, I am not going to be happy with the iPhone 4 and I will want the newest one. THAT IS NOT JOY. Nothing can truly bring you joy except Christ, knowing that He loves You no matter what. Knowing that He has a plan for your life no matter what. Knowing there is a reason for everything. Knowing that God knows best.

Do not let circumstances dictate your life. Let God's peace, joy, and love dictate your life. Remember, life is short here. And there will be nothing better than spending an eternity in Heaven with Jesus. This life is short. Joy comes from God, not stuff.

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Saturday, August 21, 2010

God is all you need

God is all You need.

Here are some things I have heard...
If I only had someone...
If I only could get a better job...
If she would just realize...
But, I need it...
But, It's worth it.
But, I know the consequences, and I am willing to pay for them.

2 Peter 1:3 His divine power has given us everything we need for LIFE and godliness through our KNOWLEDGE of HIM who called us by his own glory and goodness...

1. God gave you everything.
Not only did Jesus GIVE You everything through HIS LIFE,we now we HAVE everything we need for life. Just by us knowing HIM, we have everything we need.

Peter 2:9 if this is so, then the Lord knows how to rescue godly men from trials...


2. God will get you through anything.
There is no trial too big for God. God's word says above that the Lord will rescue us from trials!We may feel like we are at the valley, but know that there is a moutnain top ahead! (Read the whole chapter to get a better picture).

1 Peter 3:8b-9 But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years like a day. 9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promises, as some understand slowness.

3. God may make you wait through something.
This life is short. Waiting- is something that we fully don't understand. Time is of no value to God. God has no time. He is the beginning and the ending of life. So, when we feel like God is taking too long to do something, remember His timing is best. His timing is not slow. He keeps His promises when He says He will never leave us, He will rescue us from trials, He will comfort us, He will forgive us, He will be everything we need!


4. Give God everything
Since God keeps his promises, claim this one! I pray this verse allllll the time.
Matt 6:33 God, I am going to seek You first, your kingdom and righteousness, and I KNOW that all these things will be given to me!
If you feel empty, sad, lonely, upset, angry-KNOW that GOD promises that IF YOU SEEK HIM FIRST, He will bring all these things to pass and give you what you need.

Father, I pray that we would live our lives for YOU. I pray we would understand that Your timing and Your way is a lot better that our timing and our way. Amen

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Patience through Delay

This post is going to be hard for me to type, because it is something I struggle with soooo much!

How many of you have ever been around people that drive you crazy because they twiddle their thumbs in line, sigh impatiently, roll their eyes when traffic is backed up, or complain about how long the lines are at DisneyLand in the busiest time of the year?

Well, that person is me. I used to think it was a "personality" trait. Some people are more patient with others. I do think that some people acquire more than others, BUT I do not think that is an excuse for people "like me" to not learn patience.

1. Love is Patient.
For most of us, we tend to think we are good at loving people. We say hi. We wave people in traffic. We smile at the waitress. We tip well. We hug. We say "I love you" to some people...but are we patient with them?

The first word that I Corinthians 13 describes love as is PATIENT. As we know, order is important! Love is Patient. Being patient with people requires that you have patience yourself!

2.Patience can be a result of suffering.
God does not rejoice in our suffering. He rejoices in our patience. He rejoices in what we have learned FROM being patient.

2 Corinthians 1:6 If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer.

3. Patience is a fruit of the Spirit.
Patience is something given to us from God already. Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy,peace, PATIENCE..."
We have already received patience. We just need to activate it in our lives. Currently, mine is inactive, but I am slowly trying to make it a part of my Christian walk.

4. We learn patience through delay.
Many times, waiting on God to do something is very challenging. In the midst of it, we cannot stop wishing that something else would happen. But, would God allow it to happen if we didn't need it? Would God allow us to grow in patience if we already had enough of it? NO! God allows everything for a reason. Enjoy the time. Be thankful that God is teaching you something.Pray that you will learn what He is teaching you!

Psalm 27;14 Wait on the Lord, be of good courage and he shall strengthen your heart. Wait I say on the Lord.


James 5:8 You too, be patient and stand firm...

Proverbs 14:29 A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man displays folly.

Romans 12:2 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

All the Single friends out there!

1. Marriage is far more than love! In the right situation, you can fall in love with ANYONE, but a marriage would be a disaster.

2. Nothing worthwhile is ever easy.
It may or may not take time to FIND the right person, but it will take effort to KEEP the right person.

3. You attract what you ARE, not what you WANT. If you want a godly lifemate, you must be one.

4. What we need is patience WHILE we are in the hardship.
Anything good takes time. Marriage is work (from what I hear). It is not like, whenever you get married, everything gets better. It gets different. Again, this is from what I hear! :)

Psalm 27:14 Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and he shall STRENGTHEN YOUR HEART. Wait I say on the Lord.

....All this to say, Marriage is NOT bad.I promise I am pro-marriage. BUT, like my friend said, marriage is great when God is in control. God is pro-marriage, but at his time and with the person God has for you. Don't rush. Don't force it. Let Go and Let God take control. YOU ARE NOT IN CONTROL. God knows us better than we know ourselves. He knows what we need more than we do!

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Suffering

Friends, this came straight from my journal this morning. I keep reading the same things and keep finding out that order in the Bible is so cool!! And important!


God, the more I read Your Word, the more I realize that suffering is not an option. Actually, it is almost like, more suffering, the better. I am getting the feeling that is true. As I look at people I admire, they went through many hardships to get them where they are at right now.

I Thessalonians 5:16-18

16 Be joyful always. We are supposed to be joyful always. I see a reoccurring pattern here. Even though days may be hard, we are supposed to be joyful through it!

17 Pray Continually. Pray all the time. Instead of worrying, pray! Nothing ever comes out of worrying. You are not going to get it done faster, it can make yourself physically sick, and it is a sin! So, just pray whenever you feel anything. Put a reminder on your phone if you have to. Use post-its. Have it in your outlook program or your file-a-fax. Praying brings peace during trials.

18 Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. In trials, as hard as it may be, you MUST thank God for them. Why? Because God would not allow it to happen if he didn't need to teach you something. Trials bring us closer to God. Why? Because we realize that nothing else can bring us true peace than God himself. Relationships won't. Money won't. Jobs won't. Kids won't. Even ministry won't. Only God and God alone can bring us peace. So, when you are in a trial, say out loud. God, I thank you for this trial, because I know this is Your will for me! It is God's Will for you to suffer and have trials. Sometimes, it is the only way we will listen to Him. It is up to us to respond to the trial with joy, prayer, and thankfulness-knowing that this is God's will for us.

 

 

 

Monday, August 2, 2010

Philippians 4

I read Philippians 4 the other day,and I looked at the verses I had underlined in my Bible. But, I never noticed the order! It was amazing to see what God taught me from verses I have read OVER AND OVER! Here is what I got from Philippians 4 today.

1. Philippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always
Before you start presenting your requests, rejoice that you have them. Rejoice in the unknown, rejoice in the heartache, rejoice in the growing pains, rejoice knowing that there is a reason.

2. Philippians 4:6 Pray
God tells us not to be anxious, but in everything, with prayer, present our requests to God. God said that His peace will transcend all our understanding and will guard our hearts and minds.
a. We need His peace
b. We need him to guard our heart and mind from the “What if’s” of life.
c. We need to pray

3. Philippians 4:8 Think about things that are true
Scripture is truer than anything we think or feel! After we rejoice, and after we pray, God says to think about things that are true. “What if’s” are not true. They are not noble, they are not right; they are not pure, or lovely, admirable, excellent or praiseworthy. God says to think about thinks you know are true!

4. Philippians 4:12 LEARN to be content
After you rejoice, and pray, and think about things that are true, we must learn to be content with the situation or circumstance. “What if’s” do not like the word content. But, God asks us learn to be content, whatever the circumstances. Learning takes studying, and practicing. Study and practice being content. Sooner or later, you will learn it.

5. Philippians 4:14 God will give You Strength
God knew that trials would wipe us out of our own strength! That is why we have to rely on His strength. After you rejoice, pray, think about things that are true, make an effort to be content-realize that you can do all things through Christ that gives you strength!

6. Philippians 4:19 God will meet all your needs And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.He knows what you need and when you need it.

1. Rejoice always. 2. Pray to God. 3. Learn to be content 4. Think about true things. 5. Know God will give you strength 6. God will meet all your needs!

Father, help us follow You in these words. Amen